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Ok so for context; I'm a guy and my best friend is a mom of two and works in the medical field. We've also known each other since we were teenagers & our friendship has been kinda on/off for years (haven't seen her in almost 3 years now but she also lives over an hour away from me). I'm about to be married to my current partner in November of next year; when discussing the invites/guests, she told me that she doesn't like her and said that she only just barely tolerates me because I wanted to invite her to attend. I can understand how she thinks that because I'm the one who reaches out most of the time but I also think that the silence on her part is a combination of a busy schedule, lack of energy, & her baby daddy being a controlling asshole... so with everything taken into consideration: who do you guys think is right, me or my partner?

Been dating a female for about 6 months… We went on 1 date & spent quality time with each other twice… I was approached by this female saying she liked me and wanted me for years once she found out i was no longer in a relationship… We texted everyday… The chemistry, charisma, & sexual tension was definitely there… She told me she was single when i asked about her ex fiancé who she was engaged to… she said for a year & 43 days which I’m assuming it was due to him being incarcerated… he is the father of 2 of her kids… She said they still had love for one another but they decided they were better off as best friends… when she got overwhelmed & overstimulated with personal issues she would push me away & shut me out for days at a time… Her distancing herself started to bother me so i communicated it to her which she said if we communicated things would work out between us so that’s what i did… she became angry at me… she said how she eventually wanted to be my girlfriend and had future plans with me in them… she said she could see herself falling in love with me because im a good person but then we had a disagreement because the distancing became more common than ever… so she said i was suffocating her because i didn’t believe anything she told me so we friend zoned one another… Then she kept texting me i told her to stop texting me… she texted me one day saying she missed me… So we were back in good graces… Then i planned something special for her because i knew she was going through some personal issues and i had Christmas gifts for her… So on Saturday we had sex after she seen her romantic gesture and gifts but that same day she said her baby father was coming home soon… she texted me Sunday thanking me for the best few hours she had in a long time & she kept admiring her flowers while smiling so hard… Then after that things got weird she only texts me in the mornings now… my assumption is he’s home…