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How to stand up for yourself without sounding or looking cringey?

Frankly growing up I never been one to defend myself or speak up at all and naturally popular people would eat that right up "he so quiet all the time" "he so boring" But I never learned about defending myself verbally...
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Is it too much to let someone fail due to no more support after a fight?

Even though a friend of ours told her that her words can hurt, and all she said was "yeah, I'm just upset" (because she had cramps after eating something bad) and I had to keep myself from replying to her insult, not even...
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Why do so many women not know how to carry themselves?

I often see so many women either "clomping" (a sort of stomping/masculine walk) or waddling (yes, like a duck) instead of walking with the grace and elegance a woman is naturally granted. Regardless of the woman's age, it...
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Advice on dealing with a Narc friend please?

I have this ex friend whom i recently distanced myself from as I’ve noticed she may be a narcissist. And now that I’m in my 20s I realized how weird it was that a 40 year old woman wanted to be friends with a 16 year old...
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So I've been living a lie my whole life?

I don't know what to think anymore nor what to believe. About 2 weeks ago, my mom was arguing with a man. He had been coming before lately. The guy seemed mom's age and actually had a youthful face. I would guess he must...
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AM I A CRAZY GIRLFRIEND?

1. I stop my boyfriend from communicating and even smiling to her sister in law or females relatives/cousin. One time she (sis in law) was offering him some food while she was cooking, and I was so mad and called her a...
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My house is dirty and my parents are selfish so how do I deal with a dirty house and selfish parents?

I lived at home all my life with a workaholic father, a housewife mother. My mum always had a cluttered home it got to a point where it was just piled up and I became a hoarder just like my parents. None of my siblings...
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Boyfriend Makes Me Feel Insecure, Is This Love?

This is a long one so strap in. I'm 22, a black female when I first met my boyfriend (30 white male) was the heaviest I've ever been 250lbs I am now 23 sitting at 130 and 5'5. We've been together for about 2 years I lost...
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Why did my work crush say, "he loves that im a little rebel" to me?

My work crush found out I got a septum piercing & so he went to look at me because he didn't believe her. After he saw that I had a septum piercing he smiled at me & said "he loves that I'm a little rebel." I'm not a bad...
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On a break with my fiancé. How do I keep from going back?

I have broken things off with my fiancé. Long story short, we have been together for nearly four years but lately I have felt like I’m losing feelings. For example, I haven’t felt as attracted to him and I feel like the...
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Guys, if you witness a girl not defending herself do you think less of her?

My boss snapped at me for something I didn't have the control of and normally I can speak out and stand up for myself but this time I really was taken aback by this behavior that I wasn't able to do or say anything....
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Do you have a low self-esteem?

When I first traveled abroad, I entered this room and a couple men stood up on their feet and gasped "Oh... ", I thought they gasped because of how ugly they thought I was and I felt like getting my eyes teary and then...
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Dojo Girls pt 3: Why does this happen and what am I feeling?

A month and a half ago, I was at another martial arts camp, sparring with another girl. I even stood/sat beside her at the final assembly, after which the two of us got up and shared a hug. During that hug, I felt my...
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Im being walked all over, how do I stop this?

All my life I was brought up in a strict home where kids were seen and not heard, "turn the other cheek" " avoid conflict" etc etc. Now Im in my 30s and I have no idea how to stand up for myself and feel guilty when...
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Do you think Anti Vax folks knew what was coming and this is the reason they - in their words "didn't take the jab"?

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/05/03/health/covid-vaccines-side-effects.html Thousands Believe Covid Vaccines Harmed Them. Is Anyone Listening? Within minutes of getting the Johnson & Johnson Covid-19 vaccine, Michelle...
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Did I done right thing ghosting her?

I got sick of constantly flaking on me, showing poor effort in her messages, got distant, taking over a day to reply so I just stop replying, did I do the right thing? It wasn’t easy but I felt like I had no choice to...
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Hot and Cold behavior from my female friend. What can I do?

I met this person via 7cups in 2020. I have known them for almost 4 years now. We started talking more last year in 2023. Nothing romantic or anything like that. We decided to meet this past late January in 2024. It was...
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What do I do when my friends family doesn’t like me or keeps giving me looks?

I was hanging with a friend earlier today and she introduced me to her family but some gave me a looks. A few greeted me kindly, but for the most part I wasn’t welcomed with open arms. I was like, “Okay..” I was quiet for...
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Have you seen "Like Sunday, Like Rain" ?

Someone on GAG asked if anyone had seen any good movies lately and, "Like Sunday, Like Rain" first came to mind... The film beautifully depicts the friendship/relationship between a 'child prodigy' and his recently hired...
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Got too drunk with a friend and maybe embarrassed myself?

I’ve got a good friend named Evan that I’ve known for almost 5 years. We’ve had our ups and downs and we’re in a little situationship about a year ago but that ended when he moved. We got back in touch and I went to go...
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