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So I was taking classes to prepare for a late entry into university, mostly I was refreshing math skills

A group of classmates and I became friends and always sat together, this included this very cute lady who was early twenties (I was mid twenties)

After a few months I sat beside her randomly and we talked a lot and were getting on great, then at one point she was taking off her hoodie, and underneath she was wearing a tight shirt and she looked incredible, I guess I looked for a moment too long, because I realized she froze, I looked up to her eyes and we locked eyes for a good few seconds and then she just finished taking it off

We continued like nothing happened, she kept talking to me and all that

We would text a bit too later but I didn't make any moves because I wasn't in the best place in my life, and also I wasn't sure if she liked me, but I can be oblivious

I think about this because I am worried I might have come across as creepy by looking at her body, which I try to never do, here I didn't even realize I did it until it was too late, I was already looking at her

Another part of me is wondering if she was ok with me looking and if that was a sign that I should've tried talking to her more

I later saw her in my school (her and I both went to the same university after) and she was happy to see me and we talked again like the good old days

There is a negative stereotype that men are slower to grow up and mature when it comes to how they treat the opposite gender.

Personally I know I think and react differently towards women in general compared to how I was in my teens and early 20s. I am more careful about the comments I make, refrain better from starring too long (if she’s attractive), I communicate better if I am interested or not, I make better thought out decisions and I handle rejection better (and reject others better) compared to the younger version of myself

I also know most women hate the feeling of “being used and/or lied to for sex.” If it’s a hook up or fling I’ll be open about my true intentions even if it costs me want. Not to say I was a liar when I was younger. But years ago I would stay tight lipped if I just wanted one thing when the other girl was thinking we would get in a relationship. In retrospect I recognize that was wrong. Nowadays I don’t give false hope.

That of course doesn’t mean I’m perfect. I will continue to make mistakes. However I am more cognizant of how the other gender thinks now. I also am less likely to get caught off guard if a bad gut sense about something.

With that said I’ve have unfortunately encountered a lot of grown ass women in their 30s and even older that still show blatant immaturity. The worse example is how some of them still play dumb if a guy is interested (and woman isn’t) to exploit the friéndzone for attention and benefits.

I would think a grown woman would know better than to do that. It’s not a sex issue but a respect issue. The guy has only so much time, resources and patience to stick his neck out.

He can handle rejection but being friendzoned is extremely insulting. He will usually figure it out faster than a young man and when he does he will feel exploited.

Just meeting older woman who still believe in this crap is insane.

I'm talking about the ethnicity here and not just continent of birth. So African Americans count here but when I say Asians, I specifically mean east and southeast Asians. I'm excluding subcontinentals (Indians, Pakistanis etc).

Don't get me wrong, other ethnicities are great too, but this question is just about Asian and African girls.

There are so many pros to both and the cons are considered pros by many anyway.

They both share similarities but also differences. Asian and African girls both usually have flawless skin. They are also both pretty low maintenance too. For example a lot of Asian girls have never even trimmed the hedges in the lady garden because it just naturally grows in the pattern of a perfect bikini wax. Similarly African girls have it grow very tight that it doesn't really require grooming, however, it spreads out. But then the hair on their heads looks great when left natural. Similarly Asian girls hair is naturally super straight and gorgeous. Each one has their respective hair feature maxed out to perfection.

Asian girls are often naturally petite whereas African girls are often well endowed with T&A. Both pros depending on who you ask.

Asian girls are so smart. Whatever skill you have, there's an Asian girl who can do it better than you. That's just a fact.

African girls are super athletic and competitive. If you think you're good at a sport, you haven't played againt a motivated African chick.

Both have naturally gorgeous facial features.

It is such a hard choice. Which is yours?

*I am a white male asking this. You have been warned.