Do you think he’s into me , or polite?

[Anonymous]

I went out with this guy. I felt it went well.
He told the server it was one bill.. didn’t give her the chance to ask.
Just before leaving he gave me a hug and said he’ll text me next week to make plans.
I messaged when I got him and thanked him, complimented him too.
He’s not a big texter to start.. so it was short and sweet.. no compliments or flirting.. sent a smiley saying thanks after I complimented him and told me to sleep tight.

Haven’t spoke since that , but every time I post a story on social media he’s one of the first people to view it today writhing a minute or 2 after I post … no it’s not casually just flipping through stories , yet we haven’t spoke.

Not sure how to take it especially since he isn’t a big texter anyways.

Any input?

Updates

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Also should I text him?

[Anonymous]

Based on the details you provided, it's difficult to say for certain whether this guy is into you or if he's just being polite. However, there are a few things to consider:

- The fact that he told the server it was one bill could be a sign that he is interested in you and wants to make it clear that he is paying for the date.
- The fact that he hugged you and said he would text you next week to make plans is a positive sign, as it suggests that he is interested in seeing you again.
- The fact that he is one of the first people to view your stories on social media could be a sign that he is interested in what you're up to and wants to stay in touch.

That being said, it's important to remember that everyone communicates differently, and some people may not be big texters or may not express their interest in a very overt way. It's also important to give him some space and not read too much into his social media activity, as it's possible that he is just casually checking your stories without any deeper meaning.

Ultimately, the best way to know if he's into you is to continue spending time together and seeing how he behaves. If he continues to make plans with you and shows interest in your life, it's a good sign that he is into you. However, if he becomes distant or stops making plans, it may be a sign that he's not as interested as you thought.

[Anonymous]

Send him a brief text and ask him when you are going to meet up again. Bur nothing beyond that.

[Asker]

What do you think though.. into me or probably not?

[Opinion Owner]

I say maybe.

[Asker]

Do men generally ever take more than a couple days to text after a first date?

[Opinion Owner]

I think some men do.

[Asker]

Why is dating so hard lol

[Opinion Owner]

I wish I knew.