Is he just being polite or is he interested in me?

[ilikecherries]

This guy from one of my classes has been DMing me lately, asked me about my day, what music and shows I liked etc. In class he asked me how the test went that I told him about before since I was a little scared of it. He also asked me if I have a boyfriend (per DM). He does seem to think that he might be annoying me (which he totally isn't) since he always says: 'sorry if I'm bothering you rn'. (Also: since I mentioned I like memes quite a lot he has been sending me memes too)

I don't really know where to put him and don't know if he might be interested in me or if he is just being polite. He's cute in my opinion so I wouldn't be complaining xD

[edendelion]

He's most likely interested in you. I am generally polite to everyone I meet, and it is through saying "hi" when I see them, helping them if they ask, and replying if they attempt to engage in a conversation. I also initiate conversations when I'm with someone one-on-one, but I rarely go as far as seeking the person out to initiate a conversation, whether it be through social media or in person.

He is actively seeking your interests, which is another sign he is into you. Even though I may be polite, I don't really care what type of music a classmate likes to listen to, and probably won't ask, unless a topic regarding music is broached in a conversation. Now a big sign of his interest in you is his question regarding your relationship status. Asking if you have a boyfriend is seeing if you are available for him or not. Also, if he's texting you to the point he thinks he might be bothering you, it means he is actively trying to communicate with you because he enjoys it, and hopes the same for you.

I'd say he is really into you, and you should probably hint back at whether you like him or not soon. Also, don't lead him on if you're not into him. That would be cruel. Good luck!

[davidst123]

I think he is trying to know you to see if you guys are compatible. put him in the friendzone for now and later date him, if you are Interested on him

[Elliegirl]

It sounds to me like he likes you. Try flirting with him and see how he responds. There’s a good chance that if you flirt with him and hive him the sense you’re interested too he’ll ask you out!

[inchesfrommadness]

It sounds like he's interested, but just wait. There was a guy who seemed interested in me, then I found out he only felt bad for me. Give it time.

[MisterKer]

Ummm.. those are polite gestures he seems to be making.. i say if he is going out of his way to see how you are doing etc, Maybe you should step back and see if he acts the same with everyone or if it is just you he reserves his kindness for.. If so i say give him a shot before someone else swoops in and steals him. From what you post seems like a stand up dude.

[Flotri66]

If he's going out of his way to get to know what you like and dislike then that's a clear sign he's into you. No guy goes that far to DM someone for no reason.

[Somethingwittty]

Wait for a bit. Ask him to coffee or ask if he can help you in the library studying.

[Anonymous]

Why do a lot of guys always assume we can pick up on the obvious? Just because it’s obvious to you doesn’t mean it’s obvious to us. We aren’t mind readers or always like to assume either.

[Screenwriter]

Ask him to get coffee with you and find out, for heaven's sake!

[SquidwardsmellsGOOD]

He is clearly being a desperate man and chasing you and putting in max effort. While you do nothing

[DiscomfortZone]

The most obvious case of "I like you please don't run for your life" I've heard in quite a while. Too obvious to miss, so try to learn from it.

[ashu091]

He might be interested to have a relationship with you or just to present himself as a good person in front of you and then will cheat you may be later on after fucking you. Or may be his nature of being polite.

[NathanD99]

He totally seems interested. Also, if he feels like he's being annoying, reassure him that he's not.

[vxlsir]

He's interested or he wouldn't go out of his way to get your attention

[Freelancer95]

You could always ask? If you like him there's literally no harm! Even if he says no it's not awkward, it was just a question.

[toppop]

Is dude totally into you. You wouldn't be putting forth the effort he wasn't interested. The memes are a dead giveaway. You should make this guy's World light up

[siccorro]

He digs you and he's insecure. Proceed with caution

[Omar5881]

Obvs interested , if you're too make a move so that he doesn't think you're not interested in him

[Exorcist_Rampage]

It appears that he is obsessed with you and overdoing it. I'd keep an eye on him.

[Kheegan]

Mostly guys do put effort and time of they like a certain someone in my opinion he does like you.

[TheLawAroundHere]

Take a swing, kid. What do u have to lose?

[COMMODOREII]

Sounds like a new friend to me lol

[DiscomfortZone]

Literally nobody behaves that way out if friendship.

[COMMODOREII]

@DiscomfortZone you are right nobody does. But for some reason he thinks it.

[DiscomfortZone]

I don't think you got it right. I think that guy is trying to get in her shorts.

[COMMODOREII]

@DiscomfortZone maybe. But no guy would say sorry if he was trying to get in a girl's pants. And if he is he sure is green in handling it.

[DiscomfortZone]

That's guys today, dude :) Timid and feminine, or faking it to be "cool". Sad, I know, but times have indeed changed.

[AaronDavis]

He might be interested.

[Cactusqueen]

Why not ask him out?

[Ekafay33]

Yes, go for it

[Lizzymarie2003]

Definitely interested

[fggot]

Very good chance he's into you

[jadoe]

He likes you

[joethemoe912]

9/10 chance he is

[DavidEtn]

He likes you

[Golden_shine]

Interested on you.