Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow his exes or women that he's dealt with in the past on socals even tho we are in love?

[Mishab]

Me ans my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and are moving on together he introduiced me to his whole family amd his 7 year old daughter and i have a tight bond , his daughters mother everybody and i are close , he knows my family too , we are moving in together and are trying to conceieve as well im 37 he's 39 but i noticed he still follows his exes and other women from his past on his socials, he posts me. When i brought it up He tells me these where all People from his past and from years ago that he doesn't even talk to and that i shouldn't worry. I dont follow any of my exes and it makes me uncomfortable. Should i be?

[ohsheeT]

For me I think that's just kind of tacky and rude I mean even when my son's mother wanted me to add her to Facebook there's a I would never do it it's just because I never wanted her on my page I don't believe in having x's and on any of my social media I think it's just kind of tapping because when I'm with a new girl I'm with her and I don't want her to be thinking anything else and are making her feel something that she doesn't need to feel

[Iron_Man]

You guys are gonna have to talk and work that out

[Mishab]

I have tried he will not remove them

[Iron_Man]

What will you do then

[Mishab]

Im not sure

[Mishab]

Im trying to give it a bit of time to see if there are other red flags because he's still 100% investing and building à life with me otherwise this is our only issue

[Mishab]

Im thinking about giving him an ultimatum

[Iron_Man]

Do the best that you can do work it out

[dudeinohio]

It is not normal. He shouldn't be following or communicating with an ex at all. Red flag.

[In_Trance]

no, that's no normal. It's fkn lame. It's red flags all over the place

[Anonymous]

Most men are always looking to cheat, or at least thinking about it.