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for quite a while now I been hearing that hyped that as we people we should always date those who we share a lot of things in common with. but nevertheless I see a lot of people who are basically cats and dogs in personalities yet they still get along and love each other. a perfect example of this was show I once saw similar to Judge Judy where a totally preppy girl when to file a lawsuit on her boyfriend who happened to be a hyped up gothic dude who was obsess with tattoos and piercings. I've actually seen this happen a lot and i'm kinda a good example, I am a Hispanic dude who grew up the middle of the ghetto though deep inside I'm actually a gamer/comic geek yet I tend to click a lot with scene people. yet other Hispanics folks who share the same personality traits as me find me repulsing and I find them repulsing as well. I think I rather be a scene girl any day and on the contrary dating a girl who shares the same personality trait as me would be a living nightmare.

but anyways I guess this is who I am. I don't care if the person I date or am committed to shares the same personality traits as me just as long as we love each other and respect/accept ourselves for who we are. yet I seen a lot of people who actually believe the opposite. so which one are you?

It seems to me that these days men in general aren't allowed to have standards. and if a man dares to admit that he dislikes a certain trait in a potential partner many people start accusing him of all sorts of things, basically if a guy wants a girl that is not a slut he is called weak, insecure and with no character, if a guy wants a girl who is a good mother and can cook and clean he is deemed an asshole or too shitty of a boyfriend, if a guy doesn't want a girl who has plenty of guy friends he's called insecure and should just shut up and deal with it cause a girl is not going to change anything to make the guy she wants to marry happy, and the list goes on...

But what about women standards? they haven't changed much really, tall, good looking, good job, money, fun and interesting personality and being wanted by other females, which is why players get all the chicks, ( lets be realisitic here, they have sex a lot... with women, so saying that their games dont work on women is dumb and ignorant at best ) .