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I've always sort of felt this way, but now I feel that a lot of states really aren't that interesting. Maybe if I didn't have a passport or I had an infinite amount of money or someone else paid for it, I would do it. It's still not off the table, but the older you get the more you start to realize how precious money and time is, and you stop focusing so much on "collecting places" and start focusing more on seeing the places that are truly worth seeing. I've already been to all the Western and Gulf states, as well as Georgia, New York, Nebraska and the Dakotas, and there are only a few other states in the U. S. that really interest me. I'd rather use my money to see more places abroad.

Europeans can answer this question for Europe, or I guess it can apply in a more broad sense too.

I never intended to visit every country on earth, but I wanted to at least visit every country in Europe and the Americas, as well as every US state and territory and every province and territory in Canada.

But now there are places in these regions that no longer really interest me or appeal to me. Maybe if I saw all my bucketlist places first

When I see my girlfriend I feel love and attraction. But I also feel anxious. Like very anxious.

When I do things I enjoy by myself, or with most other people, they feel more fulfilling. As my girlfriend usually judges them as teen stuff, and she doesn't really seem to enjoy most of them. She's just there passing time.

This doesn't seem with specific things, but most things. She seems to like activities where you are passive, rather than active. And social rather than creative.

Paradoxically she also seems to dislike engaging with most people, where I like to exchange with persons of all kinds. She likes to live more isolated, and I like to find my neighbors and talk with them.

She loses most friendships where I have very long term friendships. She says I only have friends because there are friends from school.

The bad part about this is that my girlfriend usually want to drive me away from the things that I like and enjoy most. Even from my work, she finds it unappealing where I'm highly passionate about it. It looks rather a lack of an appeal for everything that is not just buying stuff, dining out, and cleaning the house.

So it has reached a point that being away from her makes me feel good, and being with her makes me feel like I'm selling my life cheap. That I should completely change myself to be as this woman wanted, and that is exactly the opposite of what I enjoy.

Would you rather prefer to be in relationship and find someone with a nice sexually appealing body but very very average face more attractive... or someone with nice beautiful/handsome face but very very average body?