Pt.2 why do men get upset for a Just sex relationship?

[Justneedtokno]

If it’s not established by them first, the men that already don’t want to be in a real relationship get upset when I call them just dick or just call it what it is you just want some ass. It’s not like you want me so why do men get upset?

I’m already hurting that I’m not perceived this more to you, but hey, we all gotta move on right. I will not make myself more desperate enough to appeal to you just for you to realize that you want me. It seems like a lot.


DISCLAIMER NO I’M NOT HAVING SEX AT THIS POINT. I’M CELIBATE.

I would like to be courted I would like to go on a proper date

Updates

1 y

Isn’t the entire purpose of a F. buddy? Is the person that you’re also being friends with so there is also a friendship in there

[jahaims]

He is in that situation because he is too immature for a healthy relationship and is too immature to be introspective enough to recognize he does that because he wants a relationship but is too immature to be in a healthy one

[Justneedtokno]

Aww I like him too but I don’t want to waste or wait for ever for his confusing

[ProbablyClueless]

There's a lot of power in speaking something into existence. Verbal acknowledgment that you are being devalued as a person sucks, even if you agreed to it.

[Justneedtokno]

Oh men vulnerability

[ProbablyClueless]

Men have feelings too. But, on the upside, now you know that the kind of people who find themselves in "just sex" arrangements are usually the exact people who have no fucking business having sex.

[Justneedtokno]

It seems very rare to find a man in this circumstance. And I’m not going to put common sense together. Unless he fully displays I want to be with you or I like you or any of that because I’m not just going to assume you do care or do you like me based off of what. If you’re barely putting up with me or barely communicating that feels the total opposite. And especially if I’ve told you how I felt.

[ProbablyClueless]

That certainly makes sense! There's really no excuse for so many people's communication to be as bad as it is

[Justneedtokno]

I absolutely totally agree. There are some out there that communicate clearly there is nothing more nothing less. He stated to me that we don’t match up, but when I’m offering you exactly what you want and you’re not giving me the same thing in return. I’m now confused.

[DishLady]

Bc they want a real woman and not just another little chippy.

[Justneedtokno]

Can you elaborate? Because they’re the person that suggested this situation in the beginning.

[DishLady]

No, I can't elaborate. I don't know you or the guy... I don't know why tf he wanted a "just sex relationship" or why you'd be so gullible to simply accept it.

Bottom line, he isn't currently interested in you or the "just sex relationship".

[Justneedtokno]

A relationship seems like hard work, but I don’t think I’m gullible. I just put guys that want stuff like that in a category and stop talking to them because I would like a relationship. But also on the other hand, I have been single for a long time so

[MicahRaine]

I think I missed part 1. What's the context for this?

Whatever the context is, I think sex outside of love and care (I. E. before courtship) is just a recipe for failure in every way.

[Justneedtokno]

Trust me, I feel the same way there technically is no part one. I’ve reiterated the same question and it’s double standards. That’s really in question here. There are some men that want their cake and eat it too.

[MicahRaine]

🤌👌

Ah okay. People will always be two-faced 🤷‍♂️ There are still a few good ones out there though.

[msc545]

Nobody likes to be cursed at or called names. I'm surprised that that surprises you?

[Justneedtokno]

It’s not a bad name. I’m just putting a label on whatever it is so it makes things easier. It’s meaningless. I’m not taking it serious and I won’t get caught up with my emotions in my feelings.

[scott04sa22]

They want more, the sex was good

[Justneedtokno]

lol 😂 you can’t have both

[scott04sa22]

I'm not interested 😂

[Justneedtokno]

Not you the person of course not you I don’t even know you

[Grond21]

I'm confused about what you are asking

[Justneedtokno]

Double standards men being mad about be called a piece of dick

[Grond21]

Hypocrisy I guess

[eagle1951]

cause they want more

[Justneedtokno]

More what what why he can’t just say that. I’m too young for him and old enough to play around with him.