Why is it wrong to say that men don't want relationships and only sex?

Question

We all know that men only approach women to sleep with them but if anything "serious" comes from that then it wasn't their intention.

Men only date women for 2 reasons, beauty and sex men aren't concerned about love and relationships they're only lusting after them. I've heard PLENTY of men that will openly express how they only want a woman for sex and nothing more but women express how they want relationships and love more than women.

So when women ever come to the realization that men are nothing like women and they only "love" with certain conditions, then most women will be better to date for money and later GROW to love the man if he's worthy of it which is why women should not be giving free sex to a man just because he takes her out on a few dates. He should be investing heavily into her such a money and other effort to be with her before she sleeps with him to avoid being played and used because men only want sex that's all they care about so they should be required to work for it so if the guy decides to leave or cheat on her, the woman has everything she wanted from the man and will less hurt. Men don't love women, they lust women.

Nalix · Accepted Answer

Yes. Men want loving relationships that also have lots of sex. Most women can't provide this, either physically or psychologically, with a few notable exceptions who have sex drives that outdo even the men.

It is difficult for women to emotionally satisfy men, and vice versa.

By the same token you could say that women don't love men, they love men's money. The truth is that men and women have emotional needs and they would love to find someone who meets those needs along with their sexual needs, but this is very rare.

Women want to feel protected, even controlled in a sense. They want to feel surrounded by masculine power. They want to feel safe, and provided for, and also excitement and spotenaity. Of course, each woman wants different variations of these things as well, and may not even be sure what she wants.

Men also want to feel feminine power surrounding them. This can be through seduction, affection, or general cheerfulness. Both men and women like to have people who are cheerful in their lives. Men want women who share their interests and who they can share their passions with. This is difficult because most women find the things men are passionate about to be either stupid or baffling. The feeling is mutual.

It takes time and patience, especially patience, for a man and woman to figure out their quirks and learn to emotionally satisfy each other.

hellionthesagereborn · Accepted Answer

Because its incorrect. In fact most men do want relationships. I refuse to do one night stands personally, I do not have casual sex, never have and never will. I only want a relationship. So clearly what your saying is false.

As for loving based upon conditions, sure of coures that is the case. Women are not loving disfigured homeless men, you have conditions (a lot of them. In fact, I would say more then men). Men absolutely want sex because when in a relationship that is how they get their intimacy, women are taken care of by men and in return men get sex. We are more phsyical by nature, we tend towards more phsyical intimacy and affection (in a survey men where asked what was the most important trait in a partner, 70% stated she had to cuddle. Clearly not the sex crazed heartless monsters your presenting them as).

Now should a woman hold off on giving up sex? Absolutely, but that doesn't mean she shouldn't be investing in him, she should just make sure he is a man of good character. However just because you have chosen poorly doesn't mean all men are bad, it just means you chose poorly.

Adele_26 · Accepted Answer

The issue is because people don’t understand that BIOLOGICALLY, men and women don’t think the same. Men are more visual, and women are more emotional. This does not mean men don’t have emotions, and women only think with emotion. Women aren’t capable of separating sex and emotion (scientifically proven, idc what y’all say) like men can. I would explain the science, but this would be too long. That’s why hookup culture is terrible lmao. This is excluding one night stands. That’s also why women should wait if they’re genuinely interested in the man. When a man sleeps with a women BEFORE they have a “bond”, there’s a chemical released that actually prevents them from forming an emotional bond. Men don’t “love” conditionally. People don’t understand that although men and women are SIMILAR, they are not the same. And for women that talk to this type of man that your describing, typically know what’s going on, they just ignore it. Like Bryson Tiller once said “Girl he only fucked you over cuz you let him.” I had a rude awakening after hearing THAT hahahaha

GeneticMistake · Answer

There are so many things that are wrong with this where to begin.. Get off your pedestal. Women aren't any better than men. We don't need to pamper and provide everything so you can skate by on easy street while using sex like some bargaining chip as if it was some tedious work for you to please yourself and your man. You think all men are cheating horn dogs because you're just a money grubbing gold digger that will dump a guy in half a second if someone else offers you an easier way through life. Self centered shallow narcissist. You're the worst kind of person.

PrudentGuy · Answer

1) regrets, some men aka Players are those who spoil the name of men. And I empathize with you as I read the Details.

2) but I assure you, there are MANY men who are "nice guys", even the marrying type!

3) Revelation: guys aka men aka penis owners are flesh and blood, and our blood are red! Wow!

Hence we have emotions too. This means we also "fall in love"!

4) while girls begin a relationship desiring love, us guys felt love through sex.

Yes, without sex, we feel unloved and worse, we feel used, like ATM, pay and pay in our romantic relationship.

But with sex, willingly from our SO, we felt loved and blossomed. We return love and the relationship flourished.

To conclude, we have feelings too and want it. Except initially, we feel it better through sex. So help us by fusing both sex and love together.

Tomsta · Answer

This sounds like page 1 of "How to hate men" by every extreme feminist

While yes guys are biologically coded to sleep with as many women as they can. To say thats ALL they want it rather unfair to men as an entity. Yes we do tend tohave sex more in the front of our minds than women do but women as well do think about sex. Some studies actually indicate that women might even think about it more than men

There can also be real issues underneath the surface as to why the guy acts that way. Turning to sex is a very common coping strategy for people in general who have been through some significant trauma in their life

JackSmy · Answer

WOW!! You are soooo Jaded, and so BIASED, and MAN-Hating, that I doubt any guy that has any sense of self-respect would be interested in dating you, with that level of judgment and bias, and overt HATE toward men!!

Lionman95 · Answer

Because as women are different guys are different as well. There are guys who are more conservative than others. Every guy has different values. You sound very disappointed and frustrated and I´m sorry to hear that.

Anonymous · Answer

Most probably don't
I know I am an exception to the rule
I didn't start my relationships nor did I turn them into sexual transgressions
But then I'm not normal this has been defined by every action I have taken
I see the perpetuation of my DNA as a problem I wish to avoid thanks to my medical issues and know I can't partake actively in sexual conduct unless I have an ambulance on stand by for when my heart inevitably gives out

SjE78 · Answer

why is it wrong? because for the majority of us guys it isn't true...  experience with some guys actions and interests does not count towards the entirety of the male population

AzzaBlue · Answer

Well I must be the exception then. Because I genuinely want to have a real long lasting relationship with a woman. Do I want sex? Of course I do, but it is not all that I want.

DesolateRain · Answer

As long as it's not wrong for me to say the same thing about most women.

genericname85 · Answer

cause it's untrue. many men are like that at some point in their life. i think it's unfair to judge the entire gender for what a part of them does for a limited time.

Wowboi · Answer

Men don't see relationship material all we see is seductive, body obssessed, self absorbed, online twerking, make up addicts, fat transferred, booty show offs, young females with grown up bodies and teen age brains.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Troll 🧌 I'm glad most women don't think like you. Also, why are you dressed like a s**t?

jahaims · Answer

Because it is some men not all men. Your sentence structure implys all men.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

Actually many men date for love. I did and I am married to her now.

r0ddy · Answer

You are generalizing hunny, that is why it is wrong, this applies to women too 👍🏽

es20490446e · Answer

Say the kind of men you date only want YOU for that.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Wow! You really have know idea what men want cause your talking about boys how old are you and what type of guys have you been dating

harry7825 · Answer

What do you saying we're all animals

Shihab-91 · Answer

Not all of us

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