Why is it wrong for me to not want a boyfriend and being happy in my own company?

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I will admit I'm a very confident, independent, beautiful woman so I do get a lot of guys but I only like to be friends and sleep with them on occasion but that's.

I love myself and that's it. I have my own place and no family as I was raised by my grandparents who have unfortunately passed now so I don't really have anyone in my life but I've learnt to love having that freedom. My grandparents left me everything when they passed as I was the only person left in the family so don't really need to work and I just travel to different places when I want to and I'm loving my life.

I make acquaintances with people when I travel like the owner of the apartment I'm renting and the locals and they all say a pretty girl like me should have a boyfriend or be married but I don't want to be.

I hate living with people, they always irritate me eventually. I like my own place were I can get away from others.

Don't get me wrong I enjoy having people over especially men but that's it they can leave the next day. I've had men go crazy for me and tell me they want to travel with me and be my boyfriend etc but I'm not interested and if anything that scares me off and that's the biggest sign to me when it's time to pack my case and go elsewhere.

I'm not about relationships and never have been and when I tell people this they tell me I have a problem and but it must be because I have no family etc and maybe they are right but if it makes me happy being alone whose business is that but my own. I don't want dead weight dragging me down even when I'm old I can't imagine living with someone else.

Yes it can get dangerous sleeping with lots of men and travelling bur I'm always very protected and I've always imagined to get myself out of dangerous situations because I'm street smart and have had self defence lessons.

I also get slut shamed a lot but I don't really care they are just jealous because they can't get any

Why is it wrong for me to not want a boyfriend and being happy in my own company?
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