Why is it bad to use men for money?

[Anonymous]

I really like using men for money. Because of my beauty and age, I usually take advantage of old men 30+ who are stupid enough to think that I would actually want them instead of someone closer to my age who is more fun and more attractive. And the best part? I don’t even have sex with these men lol. I just dangle the carrot of possibly being in a relationship with them and settling down and having kids with them, and they take me on grand dates, buy me nice things, and send me money if I ask for it. It’s amazing. And then I eventually ghost them when I’m bored with them. I’m fortunate to have a boyfriend now who supports me in using these ugly old men for money and we both laugh about how pitiful and desperate they are.

Why is it wrong? I get what I want and they get sold the dream that someone young beautiful and out of their league would actually want them though they’re past their prime of being desirable to women like me. I think it’s a fair deal.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think those men deserve 100% of what they're getting. If they're too dumb not to spend money on a woman, then that's on them.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Fleet7635]

If you aren’t even fuvking these guys shame on them

[Asker]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

i have been sorta used by women like you since i was 18, but they let me do body worship in exchange for my money. I'm not stupid enough to believe a gorgeous 20 yr old wants me to be her boyfriend. If she's not willing to give me the kink i want, i don't let her use me. It's gotta be mutually beneficial.

There's nothing wrong with what you're doing because the guys you're using really want to be abused. That's why they give into you. i probably would too, if i got to worship your body.

[Lliam]

Isn't dishonesty bad? You sound like a sociopath, but it's probably just the fact that you haven't matured enough to think about anyone but yourself.

I agree that those guys are stupid for giving you money. But that doesn't justify swindling.

[TheorionMage]

While what you say is societally 'true' REMEMBER, "a shark doesn't actively seek to cause you pain, it is simply a Predator who chooses to EAT you. In turn, killer whales LOVE shark's livers"... leaving the shark's sinking bleeding remains to nourish lesser fish on the food chain.

"He who made kittens put snakes in the grass... He's a Lover-of-Life
but a Player-of-Pawns" -Jethro Tull

[Lliam]

Nice Tull quote, TheorionMage. Ian could write some lyrics.

[TheorionMage]

@Lliam Thank you, Sir.
"And the words of the prophets are written on the subway walls... and tenement halls; and echo... in the wells of Silence" -Art Garfunkel ;)

[Anonymous]

Being a whore is not uncommon for women who have fallen on hard times, are drug addicts and need money to feed their addiction, or women like you who have nothing else of value to offer so they use their sex appeal to earn money. Not something to be proud of in any case, but if it's all you have then it is what it is. Make the best of it now and worry about dealing with the inevitable shame later when you're mature enough to realize what a loser you were in your early 20s.

[Asker]

That’s not the definition of a whore😘

[Asker]

I don’t think there’s any shame to be had. These men are trying to use my youth beauty and lack of experience so why should I use them for money and gifts. Fair deal.

[inhua]

it's funny when I hear people complain about "power imbalances" in age-gap dating in favor of the man but no one ever mentions things like this.

[Asker]

I don’t know why either. Studies show most age gap relationships don’t last longer than 3 years and the woman almost always dates someone closer in age in her next relationship. Majority of young women don’t want anything from old guys but $$$

[inhua]

good to know you're out here red-pilling these guys and making women look bad. the term gold digger is very true after all.

don't worry though. your boyfriend won't be with you for long. while you're giving him money he's banging some side chick behind your back.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s not it but good try though. Sounds like you got your feelings hurt lol. Tell these old fucks to stop acting like suckers if they don’t want to be sucked. Not my problem.

[inhua]

there's no need for me to do anything. you're doing an excellent job at reinforcing the red-pill truth that women out here are shallow gold diggers. they'll learn not to trust women again thanks to you and the more you do this, the more they'll realize you should all fend for yourselves instead. hashtag believe all women ain't gonna be a thing no more.
and while you're laughing with your boyfriend, he's laughing behind your back because he knows you're not someone to be trusted. he can think of them as suckers all he wants but at the end of the day, he's still a man and won't be tolerating this shit for long.

[Asker]

yeah that’s why he just proposed to me right? anyways i don’t care about these old men losing faith in women. they’re already old and useless anyways. me not taking advantage of them wasn’t going to change much for them relationship wise.

[inhua]

not surprised at all. now he can use you for both money and sex. and years down the line when your looks begin to fade, you'll lose your only source of income and he'll dump you for a younger prettier girl and take half that money too.

[Asker]

He doesn’t use me for money because I don’t give him any money lol. You really are just angry and bitter. Once you hit 30 i’ll be coming for you too😘

[Asker]

Though you sound cheap if you think it’s normal for women to be providing for a man😂😂😂 But I’ll still take the little bit of money you do have

[Sour-rose]

Because then you become his bitch and if he says kiss his ass a little for $600 right now, you'd probably do it.

[Asker]

Don’t have sex with these loser

[clampfan101]

It’s wrong to use anyone for anything. People are not toys for you to play around with.

[Asker]

They’re trying to use me for my youth beauty fertility and lack of experience. So…

[clampfan101]

Two wrongs don’t have a right. Especially when you’re encouraging them to do wrong.

[Asker]

No I’m encouraging them to learn their lesson by using them

[clampfan101]

For your own personal gain.
Whatever. I’m done.

[Billlewis]

'Why is it bad to use men for money?' It isn't, in my opinion. You can use me anytime ❤️

[FunkyMonkee]

Why is it bad for men to use women for pussy?

[Asker]

Right and that’s stupid on the woman’s part for letting that happen. Just like it’s stupid for these old fucks to give me money because they’re so desperate haha.

[BJP21]

Because what you are doing is of no intrinsic value. You can't put a price on a good loving relationship.

[Asker]

It’s not a relationship because I don’t want them

[joeldalton]

There used to be a time when women didn't want to be known as whores.

[Asker]

Learn the definition of a whore

[joeldalton]

someone who sells their body for money. You qualify.

[Asker]

I don’t have sex with these old fucks

[Asker]

So no I don’t qualify

[joeldalton]

I didn't say sex. You're giving your body in the form of your time and mind. Your mind is your body, too. You're giving up a piece of your soul as well. You are a whore.

[Asker]

I’m not going anything. I’m just taking advantage of delusional pathetic old guys.

[Asker]

Once they hit 30 it’s my time to shine

[joeldalton]

ok, whore.

[Anonymous]

My mom married my father at 19; he was 35. I think that you are lying to yourself that these men don't have a reasonable expectation of finding a girlfriend or wife at your age.

[Asker]

Dude you’re literally old asf so your parents getting married at that age is talking about something that happened in the early 1900s when women were getting married for security and not based off what they actually wanted and were attracted to.

This is 2022. Young girls are not look at old men for relationships because there’s no reason to besides financial security. There’s a reason why 92% of women marry within four years of their age.

[Asker]

*Women in the US

[Opinion Owner]

They got married in the 80s that is well into the late 1900s. There is also a reason most marriages today end in divorce. If you look at brain development. Men don't fully mature until 32; whereas women mature by 22. So a ten year age gap is the ideal relationship.

[Asker]

It’s not and the 80s was still a time where women did not choose based on what they wanted but security. Now that women have rights and are excelling more than men in multiple areas their standards have been raised hence why men keep complaining about it.

[Asker]

Again say what you want but stats show 92% of women marry and date within their age range and statistics show that the larger the age gap the higher the likeliness of divorce. Marriages with a 10 year age gap have an 80% likeliness to end in divorce. You can keep living in fantasy land if you choose but that’s not real life. Sorry babes.

[Asker]

Women’s brains also don’t finish development until 25 so you’re just spewing BS. I think you should pick a book on the subject and read it for your safety.

[Opinion Owner]

Women had just as many rights in the 80s as they do today. My grandma was one of the first women to be a project manager at Lockheed.

[Asker]

Read a book

[Opinion Owner]

I have read several. I also lived in the 80s. Granted I don't remember much before 88.

[Anonymous]

Probably a similar reason why it's bad to use Women for sex?

[Asker]

It’s the woman’s fault for allowing herself to get used

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, But the Guys also in the wrong for trying to use a Girl for Sex.

[Asker]

But they do all the time so…

[Asker]

These old guys are trying to use me are they not

[Opinion Owner]

Not every Guy uses a Girl for Sex even if they are Rich just like not Evey Girl uses a Girl for Money so just try to be caring and Kind to him and then tell him your having trouble money wise and idmf he sees being respectful towards him he most probably pay for a lot of things for you, But if your nit respectful towards him or tell him what to do all the time he is going to ignore you especially if he is fairly rich.

[Asker]

No these men are trying to use me for my youth beautiful and lack of experience

[Asker]

So I’m not wrong to use them back

[Asker]

*beauty

[Opinion Owner]

You are because all they are going to do is keep using you, It's not going to stop until one of you ends it.

The right thing to do would be to end it because all your doing is continuing the cycle, So it's up to you if you want them to stop using you or you want it to continue.

[Asker]

They’re not really using me though because they’re not getting anything from me but conversation

[AmyHew1tt]

I think this question is fake.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Almost certainly fake.

[Asker]

Nope 100% real. I love using these old fucks. So gullible.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Sure ya do 😂

Sorry but the whole speech about your boyfriend being fine with it screams fake.

[Asker]

He is because I’m getting paid for wasting these old guys time and i’m not even having sex with them😂

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah I read that part, still totally sounds fake. I'd drop a woman so fast if she even hinted about wanting to do that.

[Asker]

The best thing about humans is everyone’s different. Also as much as I respect your opinion it doesn’t matter to me. You’re past 30 so you would be on my hit list to take advantage of.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It wouldn't matter what my age was, I don't date gold diggers, I go dutch on dates, I split houshold bills down the middle.

Even if I was married, it's splitting bills 50/50 all day every day. Unless eating, then it's you pay for what you ate.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thos would be my policy by the way even if I was a billionaire.

[TheSpaceGnome]

This*

[Anonymous]

Ah so you're a whore. Good for you.

[Asker]

Whores get paid for having sex. I don’t have sex with these old degenerates😂

[Asker]

Someone can’t read…

[Opinion Owner]

You are using your sexuality in exchange for money because you have nothing of value to offer the world. You are a classic whore.

[Asker]

That’s not what the definition of a whore is no matter how much you wanna change them. If they don’t want to get sucked, tell them to stop acting like suckers. Of course I’m going to take advantage of them😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, you're a whore alright. I mean, I can understand why you don't want to admit it, because whores are among the lowest form of life on the planet and all. But everyone else knows you're a whore, and I think we can all safely assume you know it too.

[Asker]

Again you can’t change the definition of whore because you’re mad an in your feelings. Sorry babes.

[hafinjun]

Scratches my head thinking she would... what?

[Anonymous]

Your parents must be so proud of you.

[Asker]

I think my dad would be pretty proud tbh

[Opinion Owner]

No parent is proud when their daughter becomes a whore.

[Asker]

Learn the definition of whore first then come back :)

[Opinion Owner]

You are the definition of a whore.

By the way, denial is very common among whores like you, which is understandable.

[Asker]

You’re the definition a retard since you’re using words you don’t even know the meaning of. Sad.

[Opinion Owner]

You are definitely a whore, on multiple levels.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/whore

[Asker]

Must of missed the part when I said I’ve never had sex with any of them. You really are a retard.

[Opinion Owner]

Read the definition again, sweetie. Let me know if you need me to explain any of the words for you.

You are indeed a whore. Get used to it.

[Asker]

You really are fucking stupid

[Asker]

You’d be a perfect target for me to use. You’re old and dumb. Great match😎

[BarryLiverstone]

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