I secretely want my boyfriend to hurt me?

[Anonymous]

I want it to happen so i have a reason to leave him

He always promises to change and to be better boyfriend when we fight and when say i have no problem breaking up, he says he wants to carry on and be with me because he "values me".

When he says he wants space and i give it to him, he complains. Next day i can act distanxe and asks whats wrong i say "well you want space, no?" He laughs it and leans in saying "come on give me a kiss"

He texts me annoyed why i dont asnwer him. But when he online he can totally ignore my messages for a whole day, but how dare i reply 5 mins later🙄

He once compared me being on my period as equal as him when he is high on drugs, because i said he needs to stop taking that shit because it makes him psycho.

He acts nice and i have no reason to leave him, but if he hurts me ill have a reason.

What do you guys things?

[DannyUk2017]

Where do you find these kind of men? And where these men find these kind of women? 🤔
Beats me...🤦‍♂️

[Asker]

At work🫠

[Asker]

At first he was normal

[DannyUk2017]

😅... ok! Yeah well i guess i need to change my working place.🤔🤫🤣

[Fireguy17]

To me it seems like you have more than enough reasons to leave.
Why add physical violence to the list.
Is that for other people's benefit so they will agree with your decision to leave, or for getting sympathy?
That just is not a normal thing to wish for, so if you think it is time to leave then leave.
If someone else thinks he is all that great then they can have him.

[HelpfulWoman]

if you want to leave him then just do so and stop being pathetic troll

[Still-alive]

Yup got serious troll vibes from this one. Probably a dude on a pink account

[Sonorous]

Uhhh... I think that's understandable but not admirable.

[Surely]

“When he is high on drugs?” That would be enough to look for someone new!
Would never put up with drug usage or abuse!

[Staximus]

I think you're crazy and you should just break up with him if you want to. If he does any hard drugs you should leave him.

[Kingofkings1992]

If he’s using hard drugs, then you should leave ASAP

[Luckycharms12]

Why you with him then dump him problem solved

[msc545]

Like a plug finds a socket...

[Joker_]

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