What am I doing wrong?

[Rizzlekicked]

Hey everyone,

I'm seeking some advice on how I can be more attractive to guys. In the past, I've had guys show interest in me and even guy friends who would flirt a lot, but it never goes beyond that. They often end up choosing someone else or just not acting on their interest. I'm wondering what I might be doing wrong and how I can make myself more appealing so that I'm not constantly overlooked or pushed aside. Any tips or insights would be greatly appreciated!

[Kelley1]

You need to have realistic standards and stop seeking guys out of your league. To attract the guys you want you need to look like this:

[loveslongnails]

This is seriously horrible advice, in my opinion. What makes you think these boys are out of her league because she doesn't look like that?

[Kelley1]

@loveslongnails Because women have unrealistic standards. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZYXtHAiMoA&t=277s
There are millions of men that would accept her if she would only give them a chance. However, if she demands a top 1% guy--good looking, 6 ft tall, 6 pack, and 6 figure income--she has to be beautiful if she wants more than a one-night-stand.

[loveslongnails]

The women I've known who were always the most attractive to me were simply friendly and "approachable", which doesn't mean vulnerable. Be confident without being haughty. Once someone's flirting with you, be a little mysterious. Don't play games, but remember that guys need a challenge, but make certain that sex alone is NOT the ultimate prize.

[bowenw]

It's difficult to know without seeing what you look like and how you interact with guys. In general, look your best. Be yourself. Try to have engaging conversations.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[spartan55]

Can't be certain because I don't know and aren't around but I would guess it's you don't do anything and the guy loses interest.

[slatyb]

How do you react when a guy talks to you? Do they?

[Rizzlekicked]

I am shy but I will always talk back and be friendly.

[teamvic]

Hmmm well are you flirting back bro

[Tstrbrainer]

Maybe show intrest in them?