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I was chatting with my crush who often holds eye contact and smiles a lot when we interact. He also seems nervous around me but will stand real close to me.

Today, we were chatting and he more or less confirmed that he doesn’t like talking to other people because he “can’t be bothered”.

I said, “well I must be awesome if you’re talking to me” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours” but when he said this, he couldn’t look me in the eye, and he normally holds strong eye contact and will glance at my lips.

Was he flirting, could he like me? What does this mean?

My first REAL crush in my teens was a guy a little older than me. He was confident funny, not the best looking but I liked him loads. He liked me too and I had my first sexual experience with him. There was chemistry there. Due to the age differences my parents got someone to warn him to keep away from me, I only found this out a few years ago! He was only 3 years older but he was from a bit of a rough part of town.. he was a decent guy from what I knew about him. At the time he just stopped taking an interest and I was literally heart broken. I didn’t even know why.

Today I randomly sent him a song that reminded me of him and we talked briefly. we maybe speak once a year if that. But this time he told me that he had actually really liked me all those years ago and when he discovered I’d met someone else he was jealous. He said he found it hard to be around me knowing he couldn’t do anything. I just thought he’d gone off me! He’s married with 2 kids now but I’m just shocked he’s told me this now.. out of the blue. What does it mean? He seems really sincere. I do still think about him at times.