I always was a big girl. I was never skinny or slim at all. Starting when I was 11, I was very insecure about my size. I developed early. I started getting boobs at 10 years old, 11 I got a boot and all. I was obese I was overweight. I grew from 5’8 to 5’11 in middle school. It was HELL!
Boys wouldn’t even look at me and I never got asked out at to the dance until 8th grade. That’s when my guy friend started to like me. He admitted to me during high school that he likes me. I ballooned from 240lbs to 266lbs.
I had crushes on this guy who wouldn’t give me the time a day. His girlfriends were always slim or petite. He humiliated me at senior prom. I know my guy friend asked me to prom TWICE times. I went with him junior year, AS FRIENDS the second I told him no. Every dance or Valentine’s Day he asked me to go with him or ask me out and I rejected him and I told him we’re just friends.
I though boys in high school didn’t like big tall girls. My guy friend had the hots for me, even at 266lbs. I was always jealous of those slim or skinny girls. He is a big boy. Back then he was. Like me he was overweight and got tall at 6’1 or 6’2.”
I’m 5’11” and was 266lbs.
He told me I didn’t need to be thin to be beautiful and and I am beautiful the way I am. Plus I’m a big guy and I love plump girls.” I mean I’m flattered me likes me for who I am.
She STILL has a crush on me to this day. I’m down to 178lbs. He said I look amazing but I don’t look the same and don’t lose too much but health is important. He’s working on his health as well. He told me not to be like those mean, hot women. He never liked the hot, thin/curvy girls. Only me.
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I attracted far more men and better quality men when I was really heavy back in my late teens than I ever could now. High school can be a superficial environment.
Your friend might be drawn to your personality, your sense of humor, your kindness, or other qualities that make you beautiful on the inside.
*Sorry g@g chopped off part of my comment.
Why does it matter? You don’t like him more than friends.
I was a huge girl growing up and most guys like the hot and cute girls. I always envied the petite, thin, smaller girls. I even envied taller girls with thin body shapes. I didn’t understand why my guy friend prefer me over the girls in shape
Ok but that’s your own insecurities about your body and how you think men view it. Your friend just doesn’t care how you look and tbh at the end of the day all you want is someone who loves you in every stage even when you feel repulsive. I wouldn’t date the dude who didn’t like me in high school for my weight but now I’m skinnier and suddenly attractive. He will judge all your weight fluctuations when it shouldn’t be any of his business or concern.
Other guys are thinking beauty is the only thing a woman has to offer. He however realizes that beauty comes from within.
Yeah that’s true