He asked me out for a coffee, does it mean something?

[Kad99]

Soo there's this guy in my class and we dont really chat much but one day after class we did and then one day he asked me out for a coffee, like hanging out in a cafe ig. But I refused him since its against my religion. Also, recently in this week at class, he would smile at me if I would grab my books in my bag and he would prefer me as his practice partner in class.

Soo guys, what do you think of him? Like does he have a crush on me or something or am I just being delulu.

Ps: this is actually my first time in my 25 years of living, had this happen to me, which is getting asked out.

[SueShe]

When a guy is inviting a girl out for a coffee without apparent reason when he never did it before and then favoring you over all the others, is a sure sign that he is up to something no good. One simply does not invite a girl for a coffee if one would not want something from her and you are probably aware what this something is, right?

Since your religion prohibits a stranger to invite you out for a coffee, your religion probably also prohibits you from going a step further and either you adhere what your religion preaches you and you tell the guy that he has no chance with his plans or you bypass the indoctrination of your religion and see where the entire thing will take you.

If you chose the 2nd. option, then make sure you don't let it go too far and that you will be in trouble with either your religious beliefs, your parents and family and your friends.

[Anonymous]

It probably took him a while yo get the courage just to ask you for coffee. Friends drink coffee. Cut the guy some slack. Or take other friends along.

[KITEinStorm]

Offering to go for coffee is a polite way to start a flirtation. It means that she is interested in you and is trying to get to know you better.

Does he have any information about your religious beliefs? If this situation is against your beliefs, tell him. Then suggest a meeting method that suits your religious beliefs.

[Lliam]

He finds you attractive and thinks you seem like a nice person.
He just wants to get to know you better to see how much you two have in common.
How else do you get to know someone?

[Kad99]

Omgg I'm totally not used to men finding me attractive. I find it hard to believe if he truly does😅

[ienjoylookingatgreen]

Nah it don't mean anything