A guy asked me out for coffee. What does it mean?

[Lilliylilypad]

Hey everyone,
So I have a boyfriend who is really really great and nice but a week ago I met this guy at an event and it was really easy to talk to him so I gave him my number. He texted me asking me to go out for coffee. What does I mean when guys ask to go out for coffee? What should I do? I see him as just a friend.

[TheJon]

Well if he doesn't know you have a boyfriend, it definitely means he's asking you out on a date.
As far as what you should do?
I think you should make your relations with him very clear so he knows that you only see him as a friend and you are very invested in your relationship with your boyfriend. And see how he clearly has caught some feelings for you, I recommend you being careful with how much you text/talk to him because that can definitely cause problems within your relationship.

[TripleAce]

Sure you see him just as a friend lol
If that was the case ill assume your boyfriend knows about this new 'friend' kf yours that you gave your number to and now is asking you out for coffee 😂 Lol

If that is the case then ask your boyfriend if its ok with it --> oh wait. You didn't tell him right. Gotcha. So no that sounds like lying and cheating if it comes to that

What a lying sack of balls you are lol

[Lilliylilypad]

I did tell him and he said okay but he was reluctant about it because he is worried this about the guys motives and the fact that he is 4 years older than me. He is 22 my boyfriend and I are 18

[TripleAce]

Okok fine lol
You are redeemed

Wheres the harm in going... as long as you trust yourself and ur boyfriend lol
But you're young. You haven't been in a situation where you are falling for another guy yet - so you might not know how to handle it if it does happen

Can you handle it? What if you wanna explore more with this nee guy?

[luvstoned4him]

He probably wants to get to know more about you. Its like a casual date in the sense.

[thinkaloudtolive]

You see him as more than a friend and you have some interest. You're only asking to satisfy your guilt. If I were your boyfriend, I'd dump you. What if he gave his number to a girl and met her for coffee? You'd bitch him out.

[WalterRadio]

It means he wants to get to know you, to decide whether he wants to have sex with you or not.

[hduchd]

The other will think of it as a date and you should tell him otherwise.

[krishh0805]

Well!! You should go!! He just wants to have a chat with you over a cup of coffee!!

[MikeTheGreek79]

Asking to get to know you by sitting down and talking while drinking coffee.

[20yearsolder]

It means he wants to get coffee with you.

[cancan73]

Go for coffee as friends

[LastNightmare]

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