Search Results: getting hurt

Have you ever unexpectedly experienced strong feelings about someone you had a relationship with years ago?

When I was 18 I moved to the other side of the country to go to college there. Shortly after that I met a girl who had come from another part of the country to attend the same college. It's about as close to love at first...

RingOfFire

Guru Age: 71

Dating

Is my friendship recoverable?

I’ve been in a situationship/friendship with my ex. We’d been on and off for a few years, but overall we had a good friendship full of pranks and jokes. It turned into a situationship a few months ago, where we both had...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

Do you have a fear of being successful or a fear of NOT being successful?

Being successful has various meanings to each of us. You could be successful with your occupation, being a great person, being a good parent, being a good friend and many more things but sometimes we feel fear of being...

sage2021

Master Age: 71

Should I tell my abusive ex I am sorry for hurting him when getting a divorce?

We were together for six years. He was very controlling from the start, but I was so certain it would pass and he would accept me for who I am eventually. If I did everything as he said, we had peace at home, but the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do any of you have significant height difference with you partner. ?

I am about 5 feet 3 inches tall. My boyfriend is 6 feet 3 inches tall. He is a full inch taller than I am. Even when I wear 2 inch heels, he is still 10 inches taller. I don't come very high on him at all. LOL! When he...

debbiedenise

Yoda Age: 44

What are the signs I should keep my distance from my step mother?

Without getting too detailed I’ve noticed some behaviors that concern me. They’re subtle and nothing crazy it raises some red flags. Number one I don’t want to hurt my dad. Just need some advice on things I should be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I end things or wait to meet him?

I'm having a hard time today. My boyfriend has a discord with his friends. These are people he's met offline and knows. I've met all of them on the game we play together. My boyfriend is a sweet guy, he has my selfie as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I quit this relationship?

Here is my story, I met a girl and we got into a relationship. Its pretty new and in honeymoon phase. We have been together for 20 days. Almost a month right? I feel excited. But the thing is, she has a good personality...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

If you had one, what was a moment of your life you almost died in the stupidest way possible?

For me, it was this one time I almost died from eating salty snacks, such as flamin' hot cheetos, flamin' hot doritos, and spicy takis. I wish I was joking. So when I eat a lot of spicy things I tend to start coughing a...

EzraIsShy76028

Xper 7 Age: 24

Dating

Guys, should I tell him I like him or make a different move or just wait?

I've met this guy 2 months ago at an extracurricular activity and immediately thought he was cute and I had the vibe that he liked me too, he even asked for my ig. Around 2 days after that, I couldn't stop thinking about...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I've met this guy 2 months ago at an extracurricular activity and immediately thought he was cute and I had the vibe that he liked me too, he even asked for my ig. Around 2 days after

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Education & Career

Would you quit without a new job?

I have an awful job of taking files out of Recall boxes and checking for the relevant information. Then taking out the paper from the file and doing the data entry info from it. I've been doing this since August 2023. In...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he add them and not me?

My ex boyfriend and I were together for 7 years. We had decided we are better off as sex partners instead of lovers because he keeps getting everybody pregnant. ANYWAY, recently he added my mom, cousins AND my friend on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, how would you feel if you realized you’re better at self-defense than your boyfriend or husband & he’d rely on you more if something happened?

My wife and I signed up for a realism based self defense class awhile ago after an uptick in crime in our city and a few close encounters. We both decided we'd like to know what to do if something happened again. She is...

newgy34

Xper 1 Age: 41

Health & Fitness

I’m stressing does it sound like I have breast cancer 😭?

I’m stressing and I’m really scared Last week I was in the shower and I was washing my right armpit and I felt a small lump. I don’t know how long is been there but was considering me is that I have been having nipple...

Anonymous

(30-35)

To me, friends and relationships are the song Nutshell by Alive in Chains. Where do I go from here?

If you haven't heard the song, I recommend giving it a listen, in my humble opinion it's the saddest song ever recorded. Anyways, I've opened up and given my heart to 3 women. All of them have broken it. The 1st one, my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A co-worker acts interested in a relationship with me then turns cold. He doesn’t do this with other females. Why do I get this flip flop personality?

I work with this guy who sends mixed signals. I understand this is a red flag and will not pursue a relationship with him. I want to understand his behavior better though and need input. He will take time and flirt with...

Honey3157

Xper 5 Age: 46

Do you ever stay protective of your feelings when dealing with someone or do you just say “ whatever our life is too short I’m just going to have fun?

Are you still cautious of getting hurt when dealing with a guy or a girl and protective of your feelings and look for all these red signs or do you just say whatever life’s too short I might get my feelings hurt but I’d...

Anonymous

(30-35)