Should I quit this relationship?

[Anonymous]

Here is my story,
I met a girl and we got into a relationship. Its pretty new and in honeymoon phase. We have been together for 20 days. Almost a month right? I feel excited. But the thing is, she has a good personality , reassures me when I am overthinking , takes accountability for her mistakes and doesn't do anything which might hurt me. And doesn't let me cry.
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But, one day I told her I would be busy and not to text me. Fair, she didn't text me all day. I thought she would go online to check if I sent her anything or not but nope. She doesn't check if I am sent her a message or not. On the other day, I sent her a message and it was a letter. It was a sweet letter. I thought she would read it but nope she is still offline. And it has been nearly 2 days she has been offline. Now one day, I sent a friend request from a alt to her account. She got online at first but when I got online she got offline. Now I dont know, If I am getting played or she is cheating on me or not.
I tried communicating, but she is always busy. Has time for her friends on Easter but not me.
Says I am important but it doesn't feel like it.
And whenever I want to spend time in a special occasion. She is going out with her friends. And we dont even get that time we need.
What should I do?

[Finchie40]

You dug your own grave by telling her not to text you whatsoever, that was selfish of you to do , why I tell people all the time that space is not a good thing to request in a relationship period , even though you aren’t doing anything bad , your partner might assume otherwise , So she ghosted you for that reason and she probably ran off with another guy that doesn’t need space from her. , so the only person you can blame is yourself by telling her not to text you. Sending someone you actually care about a text only takes you a few seconds, if you can’t find a few seconds of your time to let someone know you are thinking about them and missing them , then you don’t really care about that person , you just like the convenience of that person and what you can receive from that person when it’s convenient for
You. If you want to last in a relationship, you have to learn to remove selfishness and understand you are no longer single , you choose someone the same way you want them to choose you ,. So take this as a lesson learned and move on and the next girl you fall for , make her your priority or you will be experiencing the same shit again and again

[Asker]

I think your mistaking my man. The so called "space" thingy. Was from her end from the first of the relationship. I have the same opinion that it takes some seconds of time to open your phone and update a person. She used to go for 5 days and yeah.
I thought she is actually busy, but I think she is just not interested.
But I value your opinion.

[Finchie40]

Then it sounds like she was playing you

[Asker]

Thank youu

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you have doubts about a relationship, its the wrong person.

[Asker]

Okay thank you

[NoDecision]

I would assume she has ghosted you. Maybe you should have not told her to not text you. I mean it didn't mean you would have to text back or even read it if you were busy. That could have meant to her that you were seeing someone else too. Who knows but her? Why don't you stay off the impersonal texts baloney and just call her?

[Asker]

We are honestly in a new relationship. I dont want to call since we never did and she is shy person. I respect that, I did say that I would be busy when she wakes up. I did wrote a long letter.
I dont know whats going on.

[NoDecision]

And you may never find out unless you actually talk to her. If I could never communicate with someone besides texts, I would think I wasn't important enough to talk to and would probably bow out too. But, you have to play it as you seem fit. Good luck.

[DishLady]

If you have to ask then you probably should.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach here to sprinkle some love, it looks like you’re caught in a mini-situationship rollercoaster! 🎢 You've shared a whirlwind of events, which seems to have slammed the brakes on your love fest. Unfortunately, your heartstrings are pulling in all directions. Since you've mentioned communication was tough, try to seek clarity with her directly. If a pattern of distancing or prioritization issues persists, it could be a red flag waving at you. Every relationship thrives on mutual commitment and fun-tastic times—wishing you lots of love and connection as you navigate this! 🙌💕

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Anonymous]

20 whole days and you think you are entitled to take over her entire life already? And ridiculous immature games with fake accounts? Grow up kid.

[Asker]

Games? Sorry? But I am not the one playing games. If she can't text her boyfriend. It doesn't take 5 mins for a text.

[In_Trance]

yeah