Search Results: noticing appearances

Is a guy showing a bit of emotion unattractive? How do girls feel about insecurity in guys?

So for some context, I was dating this girl for around 3 months, to me it seemed like everything was going well, she was always quite busy and so was I with work so we really only texted in the evening and met up at the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Parents! At what age do you think it's acceptable for your daughter to start wearing thongs and gstrings?

When I was 11 years old, I secretly started wearing thongs and gstrings without my parents permission. I did this for several reasons, firstly I played a lot of sports at school and got annoyed with ordinary panties...

ItsAimee

Xper 3 Age: 23

Break Up & Divorce

Slutty girl , hate her?

I met this girl last year. It started off by me staring at her a lot and she noticed me. In appearance wise, she's totally my type. I'm a player and I have no interest in being in a relationship. While I was very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why won't she have sex?

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a guy does this?

If a guy gives a girl compliment on her appearance, noticed silly things, playfully teases her, holds her arm while talking to her, gives loads eye contact with winks and hugs her goodbye and kisses her on the cheek……does...

maccerd123

Xper 1 Age: 17

Good friends, or more?

She is my colleague at my new work place (3 months), and I'm uncertain if she has any feelings other than enjoying working with me. I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I wouldn't turn one away. I do like...

Khronuskeeper

Xper 4 Age: 28

Normal male friend behaviour?

If a guy acts like this around a girl what does he mean? loads eye contact sometimes caught staring, playfully teases over silly things, notices new clothes always compliments about her appearance, will grab her hand...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How Do I Look?

What's the first thing you notice about me ! ?

I'm definitely trying to think of what I can do to better my appearance I'm not happy with the way I look I don't know if it is just me being insecure or if there are stuff really wrong with me ! Help me

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating Someone with Body Dysmorphic Disorder

This take is not to offend anyone who is going through this disorder. I just want to share my experience in dealing with someone who did. For starters, dating apps are not my usual go to. But I decided to give it a go. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Black men vs white and Asian men when it comes to women and Intellect/appearance?

So I've noticed a few differences and would like an explanation. When I dress conservative and when it comes to my intellect who I attract: white and Asian men When I'm going to a party and wear fitting clothing...

Uptowngirl88

Explorer Age: 32

Why do people say look’s don’t matter at all when they actually do?

To me, to be honest looks matter. They’re just not everything. I know the old saying you can’t judge a book by it’s cover. Even though looks/appearances can deceive, they will always be the first thing we notice. The...

Counterclocking

Xper 7 Age: 46

Family & Friends

What do you do in a situation when your family clearly don’t like a hobby you are passionate for, for no apparent reason?

If you’ve come across my posts before you probably know I’ve been doing competitive bodybuilding a long while now. Now I know everyone doesn’t have to like a hobby you do, but what do you do when your family clearly says...

muscularbumblebee

Xper 7 Age: 24

Girl sits comfortably next to me on the couch. What does this mean?

This girl we first met on a road trip. We where both sitting next to each other on the back seat of a sedan. While sitting next to each other, I noticed she fixed her hair several time, applied lip gloss several times...

Pewee911

Xper 2 Age: 36

Other

Workplace ‘feedback’?

Every workplace I’ve worked in, has talked disparagingly about myself and/or other colleagues, that they perceive as ‘loners’ or not fitting - ALWAYS in their absence. A number of jobs I’ve worked in, have assumed...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Why do many girls assume that I'm trying to hit on them & in general don't feel comfortable around me?

I've noticed that when I have to interact with a gal in person that they usually get very defensive & somewhat bitchy if we have to speak to each other Is my appearance playing a role in how I'm being treated?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys approach me all the time, why?

my friends and I have noticed I get approached the most by guys in general, at the gym, at the grocery store, it's even happened while driving LOL. I'm tall, overweight, laid back appearance, have small boobs, don't wear...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Could You Be In A Serious Relationship With A High-Maintenance Girl?

High-Maintenance Girl Definition: 👑 "A girl who wants to be treated like a princess, has very high standards, spends a lot of time, effort, and money (her own money) on her appearance." Follow Up: ✨️ Guys, Do You...

Anonymous

(25-29)

High-Maintenance Girl Definition: 👑 "A girl who wants to be treated like a princess, has very high standards, spends a lot of time, effort, and money (her own money) on her

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