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I’m short & have blonde hair.
With any of these outfits I plan being a crop black jacket over & shoes black flats

I’m skinny so I like to cover my legs but fear I won’t like the tube dress as guys stare at girls that show skin like legs& shorts and belly crop tops so I’m hesitant of the tube dress even tho I love it

I like the long midi skirt the best but fear as it’s out of style now so I won’t find one at the mall

I never wear short skirts and I have short skinny legs so I don't know if I’ll feel sexy in that. Skirts look long on me as I’m too short. And if I get a super short skirt it’ll show my butt.

I’ve been emotionally committed to a guy for almost 3 years, I don’t think he ever emotionally committed to me though. We went on a 4 dates when we first met & never slept together. He’s stayed in touch with me on FaceTime through a deployment & him moving across the country. Emotionally were closer than ever, we talk for hours multiple days a week, but he recently told me he doesn’t want a LDR so I told him I’d move & he didn’t say anything about it. I know he’ll continue to call & share with me like I’m his girlfriend, but he isn’t moving this forward or willing to try.

I really love him so I don’t want to cut him out, but I don’t see another option except saying “Unless you’re ready to commit or give me real space in your life, please don’t call me”.

I’m looking for a man’s perspective, please give me advice or say what you think I should do.