Can a guy still get a girlfriend today with low looks and no big money?

[Anonymous]

In today society

[emeraldsaphire]

Most of the guys I've dated were poor. My husband was the best off when we started dating, but he wasn't well off by any means. He didn't even own a house. He's doing a lot better now. Hence why I don't have to work anymore. Cause that's the thing about money, it can change. I had a friends with benefits who was a sugar daddy I saw when I was 21. The guy was loaded he bought me anything I wanted. Well guess what he got busted for some crime that I can't remember. Last thing I heard he was couch surfing. Then take my husband, I didn't know him back then, but he got kicked out of his parents house at 18 for reasons I don't want to share here, but his family was awful back then ( I still think they are) He was homeless for a time. Now sure he's not rich, but he's doing great.

As for the looks thing. Most guys look fine. Like not hot, but not ugly either. Using my husband again as an example. Up until he was 25 he looked like a bum. I feel bad for saying that, but the dude didn't know how to dress, I don't know what he was thinking with the hair cut he had and his scraggly beard. lol hard No back then, but then he learned how to dress, shaved, stopped going to barbers who are blind and now he looks great.

[Screenwriter]

As long as you have a job and you're a pleasant person to be with, got a sense of humor, can think of good places to go and things to do, you have a chance to meet someone who will enjoy being with you.

You don't have to look like Michael B. Jordan or Timothy Chalamet to date women and you dont have to have their money. There's a minority of people who think dates have to be perfect looking and rich, usually the very young and foolish who have no life experience.

[InknKink]

Every ugly person you meet, adult and/or child, they were likely born from ugly parents. And there is an entire world of full of ugly people; sorry those of you who identify as such. I love you all regardless.

It just means you have to match your outlook with with real time standards.

If you're a 3 or a 4, don't expect to be tapping the smoke show from work. Expect the girl with a few extra pounds, a lazy eye, and buck teeth to be the realistic outcome.

That's life.

I think the real issue for people who are less desirable is that they get so used to seeing the higher end of the spectrum from socials that anything less becomes an undesirable outcome.

Emotion connections and sex is great my friend. Even if you have to work a little harder to get it up because she's not eliciting a response without even trying.

[Anonymous]

Lol man 😂 I tell ya.

Your be amazed how just by living life, being yourself and enjoying day to day life

These things just happen. Like how anyone builds friends or real world connections - 😋🙌it's not from living under rocks or from pretending to be anything other than true 😀 and you.

Peace ✌🏻 easy for me to say, imperfectly 🫠

[Nikki1989]

Anyone can do it. Just because a few delusional and bitter trolls on here say otherwise doesn't make it true.

[jahaims]

If you settle for someone equally as pathetic sure.

[Anonymous]

Yes. But his pool will be smaller. The good news is it'll be higher quality though.

[Asker]

How surely it be non existent?

[Anonymous]

Literally anyone is capable of it

[Asker]

Yes, maybe before 1970 that was true.

[fonduegirl]

Nopes