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In many places in the world, it has become very common for girls and women to wear clothes that show skin or accentuate their figure. Off the top of my head, I can think of short and tight shorts, dresses, yoga pants, crop tops, and other fancy female clothes that show shoulders, stomach, cleave, back or wraps around hips and ass.

Personally, as a guy, I think such clothes can look everything from cool/stylish, pretty, and sexy, to trashy. I guess much of it depends on the personality of the girl too, but revealing and or tight clothes can be very aesthetic, especially if it's worn in combination with or interesting clothes (which, in contrast, covers a lot) or unaesthetic.

Have you ever seen such clothes that looked good on guy, or do you think that such clothes, emphasizing the male figure, could potentially be aesthetic, or even sexy, on a guy (regardless of a sexuality)? Could masculine clothes be revealing, or could even certain female revealing and or tight clothes be attractive on a guy?

The whole premise of this website is to ask the opposite gender about dating and relationship questions. Given we are anonymous it’s easier to ask questions and get responses without worry about losing face.

And yet I find that most women I talk to do NOT often give good dating advice. I feel that they usually respond to “protect the team” i. e. tell me what to do which is in best interest to another random woman vs. really trying to understand my POV.

For what it’s worth it’s extremely difficult to think and understand the opposite gender. But I don’t always respond to “protect some other guy” depending on the circumstance a woman is going through and asking about.

Sometimes i see women talking about emotionally abusive relationships and encourage them to get tough and draw the line. They struggle because they have feelings which are compromising their judgment (can be true on the man’s side as well). But I don’t like seeing dbag guys get away with that crap. I sure as hell won’t tell the girl to keep enabling them.

But I feel that most women on here (and in general) always give the other woman the benefit of the doubt when they are giving advice to guys. Guys aren’t looking for the answer they want to hear on here. They want the truth so when we ask questions we rarely embellish our circumstances.

Anyway when I am dealing with tough dating situations I find that other men usually give better advice then women. Reason being they are feeling emotions I am feeling so they can look at issue more clear headed. It might be not what I want to hear. But what I NEED to hear. That is what matters.