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I met both Druke and Sam online. Sam was my first boyfriend and we've been together however we had terrible fights with Sam few months ago because of other girl he gave flowers into. He said, he doesn't love her and just pity her situation. I dont want to believe that and making me think he make me a dumb. I asked the woman to go away from us and blocked Sam. Sam got mad at me to the point he blocked me too. He becomes cold and distant to the point, he doesn't talk a day, a week, then a month.

The month was worse, so I decided to join back a dating app and met someone new and I was surprise this men really gave me time and value me. He even immediately booked ticket to meet me in person.

Sam learned about Druke because I told him, and blocked him. He felt anxious and wants me back now. He reply to my text fast and seems be changed. He told me it was his friends to go no contact. He should have given me enough time. I asked Sam to meet me but he makes many excuses and said next year I can.

I still love Sam and Druke is just a good man I want to know in person. Should I go back to Sam because I love him. Or should I choose Druke this time?

All my relatives are 28, late 30s to 40s with kids, bought a home, and earn a lot of money. I seem to be the youngest turning 25 and a black sheep ignored. Everyone is older 30-40 & rich showing off their home they bought. I’m young but I’m the only person that has lived in a studio home with a small business. Everyone else in my family had none of that my age. Just living with parents broke or party. I don’t talk to any of my family at all. I’m alone or see boyfriend. Also my family members became stuck up as they have good job or earn more money, which is sad to see. Everyone in my family ignores me , no one asks about my life or business, they r just distant gone. Don’t care of me. I don’t have kids so I don’t need buy a home yet. Maybe in 10 years when I’m 35. Or meantime I can live with a boyfriend when I have a baby in a nice townhouse Big apartment. i don’t want be rich or stuck up. I want simple life , no competing, just enjoy my home and partner that’s it. I don’t desire be rich have expensive things.