What are we? He doesn't know and neither do I?

Known him for about 10 months. We met at my job. He asked for my number and told me I was pretty. So we began texting and he called me. From there we called and texted pretty much everyday. He wanted me to come over to him (he didn’t have a car) and see him an hour before he went to work. A bunch of times which I denied. He never talked to me at work after getting my number and usually when he saw me he would make run for it. I never knew why since we always complained about not seeing each other. He would always tell me he was going to take me on dates like the movies or to a party but never did. We never went on any actual dates. He would act weird when we were together in public or if anyone seen us. I would ask about it and he would give some shttt answer. I asked did he have a girlfriend and always said no.

We had sex exactly after a month of knowing each other and it was only because he convinced me. I told him I wasn’t ready and it was too early but he kept telling me that we will eventually do it one day so why not now. It was the second meet up we had. The first time we met up, he was already putting his hands down my bra and my pants. Despite all of this, we still stayed in the talking stage and I heard from him everyday. But after we had sex he became different and we no longer talked like we used to. He was inconsistent but not extremely. Maybe would go 3 days without talking to me. Every month stayed like this, I wouldn’t hear from him much then I would get a call from him. He would call me everyday non stop then and stay on the phone for hours/ days until when we had sex, then you wouldn’t hear from him no more. Then the cycle starts again. Except he has became more and more distant which made me think he met another girl.

So I asked him he seeing another girl at the moment. It was yes/ no questions but I got sentences and “what do you mean?” He basically explained that he doesn’t know what I’m asking and doesn’t understand me:.