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One night you went out with a group of friends, and for whatever reason ended up cheating on your (boyfriend/girlfriend) with another guy/girl. They learned of this and confornted you. After a calm discussion they asked showed you the door and asked that you remove yourself from there life's at ones. There was no yelling, name calling or swearing comming from them, only them telling you all of this with a dead look in there eyes and in very monotone way.

After couples of days news reached you that your boyfriend/girlfriend have taken there life. The reason for this was never provided, but was open to speculation. Would you feel that your actions to cheat on your boyfriend/girlfriend have resulted in there desission to end there own life; or would you consider that the fact that you cheated has nothing to do with there decission and that it was in the works for a while, your actions did nothing wrong to provoke the person to commit suicide, or would you consider your actions the "last straw" that pushed the person off the cliff and into a black void which resulted in loss of life.

Note: There is no wrong or right answer, this is a psychological experiment I'm running. After reading couple of interesting psychology books I'm trying to figure something out, and as such need others to take part in this little experiment.

You don't have to share your legit stories of cheating. It can be fictional (running this question as a simulation in your head).

Cheers and good luck.

So this happened when I first came to the UK. As I was finding my way to my new house I'd never seen before, a random girl stopped me and this awkward conversation took place.

Girl: "You're really cute"
I was a bit out of it, since I was tired from traveling, carrying the luggage and so on, so I asked her to repeat.
Girl: "I said you're really handsome, Do you ever think that about yourself?"
Me: "Not really, but thanks, I guess?"
Girl: "You're welcome."

Then it was quite awkward and we kind of just said goodbye, and she went on her way. Admittedly, I could have handled the situation better, but hey... that's me. We were the only two people within probably a mile. It was dark, around midnight, and I was carrying a large suitcase and a laptop bag, probably looking quite tired, which is why I thought maybe I looked a bit down and she was trying to cheer me up? I still don't know if that was the case. Was it? Or am I missing out on something here due to being dense?

What makes me even more curious, is the fact that this had never happened before and still has never happened in my home country. But it did happen a few times since then in the UK, though usually by what seem to be intoxicated girls, so I never really think much of it. Realistically speaking, I'm not really that attractive and although I'm not fat, I'm not in great shape either. So what is up with this?

Any UK people care to share? Any other foreigners living in the UK who've noticed something similar?