Never ever lose your pride and your dignity for a friend you are in love with

[MeBoy]

Hi there Guys .. how r u doing ?

i never wrote a take and this will be my first time .. i want to talk about an experience i had over the past years and i really dont want you guys to do the same mistakes i did

Anyway this started when i met this girl 7 years ago .. we have been friends for almost 3 years then i fell in love with her .. she knew but she was with someone so we decided to stay friends .. anyway guys in the last 4 years I've had the worst times of my life being around this girl and the funny thing was being around her boyfriend too.

So short story : he cheated on her -> i told her -> they broke up and i was like ' Wow i finally got her '

and this was the total opposite .. when she broke up with him i was her savior .. when ever she feels alone she uses me as her Temporary boyfriend and when ever she gets enough she starts a fight and we get back to 0 .. along this process I've treated like shit but i was too weak to leave her because i really loved her .. so anything that has relation with pride and dignity i deleted it from my memory .. I've done things no can do for her but I've got nothing but hurt

don't take it wrong .. she is not bad .. she truly loved me as her friend .. but when it came to her healing from her break-up, i payed for it as her "sanctuary" .. she does things and don't want me to do them .. she gets jealous of my female friends .. she wants me available for the whole time but she was never doing the same

I wasn't played guys .. because she is a really sweet girl but she suffered a lot .. but this doesn't meant that i had to suffer too .. the only mistake i made was staying around all this DRAMA ..

SHORT STORY : NEVER DO WHAT I DID

You will get hurt , hate yourself , lose your pride , lose your self esteem , lose your dignity for something that is not worth it at all .. Do you want your heart to be broke into millions of pieces ? i can answer that : NOO .. no one wants that .. So ?? MOVE ON

Even if it seems that she is the one .. and that you are so in love and that you can't do it .. WELL : YOU ARE WRONG !

Just Leave all behind & go in your way .. The sea is full of fish and you will be better without all the drama

This is me sharing my story that endeed a month ago .. from which i woke up late .. but late better than never as they say and i don't want you guys to do the same mistakes

Hope you all a good Day .. Stay Happy .. Stay Positive .. Life is Beautiful <3

Cheers

PS : i'd really love your opinions concerning this Take .. and your critics as well .. Thank You

[Spiorad_Aisce]

Good take - I don't know if you have seen any of my opinions in friendzone questions, it is always the same.
Friendzone only works if crushee says there is no hope of a relationship and the crusher agrees to bury feelings. Any other circumstance leads to one or both people getting emotionally hurt. Your story proves it, I am sure you are both good people but the feelings within the friendship have screwed everything up. If the feelings aren't mutual or can't be buried, get out.
Good take for your first one by the way.

[MeBoy]

Thanks for your opinion.. no never seen them im new here.. just to add , even burying the feelings won't help.. cuz they always stay there.. one day or another they will surface again and it will be to late.. thanks again.. cheers

[Offthelist]

Good advice and Good take.. there's something to be said about girls like that. But the thing is, no one should stick around for it. Ultimately i dont think anyone deserves the pain sad people such as your ex can inflict upon others. its a sad reality people just need to walk away from. Some are better off alone. I now know i am. As painful as it is, im personally happy for my boyfriend. i wish him the best. Ill probably always love him. But he's better off without me. Good take.

[MeBoy]

Exactly what she said to me.. she told me to go look for my future and get back later maybe things will be different.. but like this its gonna be always painful.. thanks for your opinion.. have a good day

[Offthelist]

true. sometimes when im out running at night i just lay down stare at the sky and talk to him. So when i do see him, well be on the same page. Go back to the place we once were at.. well, Good luck to you.

[MeBoy]

Good luck to you too.. thanks

[mymona]

bro same thing is happening to me right now !
i want to talk to you. can you message me on fb my id "sahapartha15"

[MeBoy]

Follow me here and we can have a chat mate.. no fb.. sorry