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A common thread in mass shooters... grievances... leading to resentments. They become consumed in their negative emotions and plan and punish anyone and everyone. Makes them "feel good". What I wonder is why some people overcome grievances and others give into them.

"Grievance is not an emotion itself, but rather a feeling of resentment or complaint about a perceived wrong or hardship. It often involves emotions like anger, frustration, or sadness related to that perceived injustice."

I've felt that long ago and overcame it. Getting a good world view helps to see things clearly.

If you have wrong expectations of this world, feel powerless, leads to big problems in relating to the world.

I suspect grievance can turn into other social, subvertive ills as well...

https://www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/world-news/man-reveals-spine-chilling-question-33059836

I'm sure I could list lots of things. Sensational news (tabloid media), influencers, streaming, smart phones, digital everything, history, heritage, tradition, progress, change.

I mean aren't so many things embellished or just plain over-hyped. I think so lol 😂😆

A question of good 👍 😊 wholesome quality and humour, is all.

Maybe our questions aren't good enough anymore?

I know this kind of topic comes up a lot, but my situation has a twist.

About two years ago I matched with a girl on Tinder. We moved over to Messenger (because we both felt we vibed) pretty quickly and had long, positive conversations with a really good flow. After 4–5 days I suggested a phone call, and we exchanged numbers, though we never actually ended up calling.

Shortly after that she said she felt unsure about what she was doing, and the conversation slowly fell apart. Eventually she told me she didn’t want to continue talking, so I respected that and we went our separate ways.

Fast-forward to last weekend: she matched me again. She responded to my opening message with a friendly, genuine reply. She also said she remembered our previous conversations and that she found them fun. She asked questions back and kept the tone light.

I replied 1–2 hours later the same day.

Since then, it’s been around 40 hours with no response, and Tinder shows she hasn’t read my message yet.

If this were a completely fresh match, I’d assume a ghost and move on.
But this is someone where we already had compatibility and great rapport before.

So I’m curious; why do you think she chose to rematch with me after two years?
Even though she hasn’t replied yet, should I still assume it’s a ghosting situation, or is it different in a case like this?

Also, should I (see polls):

I just read a question posted by a girl saying, 'no sense in even trying to date because I have small boobs and that's not his type.' She will never know what she may have missed.

My type is very smart, cute face, blonde, petite, small features, 32A-34B boobs, small butt, kind, gentle, soft-spoken. . . and not once have I ever dated a girl who matched all of those traits. I have dated one woman who matched the physical characteristics but not the personality characteristics. The other 99% of my dates were not a close match for my type, but I had some very satisfying relationships over the years.

How often do you date someone who is a good match for "your type," if you have one?