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Search Results: how to get my confidence up
Why do some boyfriends criticize the looks of their girlfriends?
That stems from the similar post I’ve made today. I just remembered that while first 2.5 years of my past relationship were perfect. He was angelic and perfect to me. The last 1 year my ex became very toxic. He was...
Why Men Keep Being Weak With Women
I saw it again a few weeks ago at a festival. Another guy following around a girl he likes like a puppy. I know this girl. Friendly and very quiet and cute with a nice figure. It was sad and pathetic seeing that guy...
Why would he project his insecurities onto me?
We've been dating for as long as 9 months. He is very handsome but seems to have some issues about himself. The first few months we were together, . Wasn't the best but didn't involve him being insecure. He was really...
Anonymous
(25-29) I almost caused a car accident and just hate myself for it?
I drive A LOT.. I am experienced and most people consider me a very good confident driver. We’ll for the first time in a long time I really fucked up but no harm due to luck being on my side. basically one person had the...
Anonymous
(30-35) What should I do when I feel unattractive next to my attractive friend?
I have a friend from high school who I don't see often, in high school I only hung out with her. She worked all this summer and she had some obligations, so I didn't see her for two months, even though we're always in...
Anonymous
(18-24) Should I make a move on my crush? Should I confess or just get his number from someone and text him? Should I let his friend tell him?
So I have a crush on this guy at church. We’ve known each other for years in the way that we see each other at church and we’re both very involved in church stuff and he talks to my brother every now and again. So he...
Cecedrake_AT555
Xper 3 Age: 23 Guys, Should I make a move on my crush? Should I confess or just get his number from someone and text him? Should I let his friend tell him?
So I have a crush on this guy at church. We’ve known each other for years in the way that we see each other at church and we’re both very involved in church stuff and he talks to my brother every now and again. So he...
Anonymous
(18-24) The False Promise of Looks: A Surface Deep Liability
In many online circles of unhappily single men and women, attractiveness is heralded as the barrier to romantic access and relationship success; and whilst it is true that an individual's appearance determines how...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, first date idea?
I've been talking to this girl since February 2023, we haven't met yet. We are going to meet and I just want to know if I went to her favourite dessert spot outside of the city and brought it back for her before our first...
Anonymous
(30-35) Out of the blue she’s stopped wanting to see me, thinks it may be because of her low mood with everything that’s going on. What do you think?
We’ve (m31 and f27) been dating for 3 months and she seemed really happy with me, then the two days she got back home she sent this: “He’s okay just confidence knocked I think bless him. I hadn’t realised they’d taken...
anonparrot1
Xper 3 Age: 34 She texts, makes phone calls daily... but is super nervous about setting up a coffee date after second week of talking. Why it's a relationship killer.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/_X6YXS8UB1M This My Take is written specifically in regards to people who connect online. This has nothing to do a people that you know in real life or had previous relationship with. I want...
About to breakup, How can I not hurt him?
I have been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now, and Im thinking of breaking up. Im not feeling the connection anymore, and I want him to move on and meet someone who does want him (in that way). I...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can anyone's confidence be so low?
Recently, I started thinking about my life and things I wanted to do. I turned 28, and I didn't do anything. I didn't live my life. My extreme lack of confidence has been making my life really difficult in every...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, how would you feel if your boyfriend or husband got beaten up by a girl?
I was recently at a party and wandered over to a somewhat secluded area where I saw two girls fighting. I was the only one nearby and stupidly decided to intervene. I was over confident because I am a tall guy and try to...
bygysrbst
Xper 3 Age: 33 I can't tell if he is an anxious endearing guy or a player?
I met this successful and attractive 36 year old businessman while shopping for a car. He is the owner of the car place and after the sale was done, he attempted to hit on me me but he was very clumsy and awkward which I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do people engage in "open" relationships? Isn't it just an excuse to cheat rather than just have friends with benefits or better yet, causal flings?
I'm honestly curious why people think open relationships are good or even healthy. What when Open relationships = an excuse for cheating The term "open" relationships originated with cheaters who wanted an excuse. A means...
WiccanLady2023
Xper 3 Age: 39 Could he actually like me? Why did he say we were dating? Am I in over my head?
So where I’m from most of us are religious people. In our country most of the people believe in god and go to church once in a while. We’re not religious in the sense of staying virgins till marriage, we just go, worship,...
HaleyCovey360
Xper 2 Age: 21 Why did she make that face when I said I was leaving?
I started my current job last October and 3 day ago I was offer a new position else where. I few after I started like around mid November of last year they hired this new broad that seemed to have a crush on me. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is talking to every girl you find attractive the only way to gain confidence?
I’m 28 years old and I still get nervous talking to women I find attractive. I was saved in my early 20’s because a lot of the girls I messed with I knew them from school. The sad thing is I’m a handsome guy and most...
Anonymous
(30-35) This girl I used to date became cool again (we talk frequently otp) and she invited me to an event and introduced me to her parents?
Me and this girl used to date a year ago, I lacked self confidence back then, was awkward and nervous around her and didn’t really take care of myself. I used to drink and get high and say belligerent things on the phone...
vcr123
Xper 4 Age: 25 