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Is my neighbour’s grand romantic gesture sweet or just creepy stalking?
I moved into my new apartment 3 months ago and I started using the communal gym. There was two guys also in there and one kept giving me the eye. I found it really awkward and uncomfortable so I said "can I help you...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I just pay my first speeding ticket or try to fight and reduce it?
So the state I’m in, and the section of highway I was driving is pretty well-policed for speeders most of the time. I see people getting pulled over all the time. But today it was pretty empty and later in the day on a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is dating so hard as an autistic woman nearing 30?
I went on a couple dates with some guys and it just didn’t go far. No second dates. in February I talked to this guy for a couple weeks and last month we went on our first date. It was great until he said he doesn’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) I think dating apps are helping me as much as they’re hurting?
I’ve been out of the dating game for pretty much my whole life. I’ve been working so hard just to get my money right and up to a livable place. So it was to the point, up until now basically, that I just didn’t feel like...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do men really look for in women over 30, beyond just looks?
I noticed guys don't seem to like or chase me. It's not because of looks I know that. So then why? It makes me wonder what's lacking in me..
Anonymous
(30-35) What emoji best describes you when you're concentrating?
Was driving earlier and someone stops outta nowhere, I had to swerve to the wrong side where a buss was heading towards me and that's when I saw why the guy in front of me stopped, some idiot was shooting out a driveway...
What does it mean when a married woman keeps asking me if I would save her or protect her?
OK, this is a weird one (to me). And I really can't figure it out. There's this married woman who is openly obsessed with me and has been for about 2 years. She's been curious about me longer than that most likely because...
OneViewpoint
Guru Age: 60 Approaching dating intentionally as a man?
There’s a ton of game and propaganda out there about how you have to talk to women like this and that and game her emotions. Does… simply being forthright and honest also not work? Why does everyone have to act like...
Anonymous
(30-35) When a guy says 'take care of yourself,' does he actually like me?
For context, He’s someone I met in college. he always stares at me either long glances at me or when I’m not looking, he says my name frequently in conversation, makes jokes with me a lot, & always near me a lot. Anyways,...
Anonymous
(30-35) He kept looking at me even though he was talking to someone else?
I have a crush on this guy. So timeline: two weeks ago he was extremely awful and mean to me when i came to see him. Asked why I was there and was just being an asshole in general. Then a week after this we spoke and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Do average-looking husbands actually make wives happier than hot guys?
If you Google attractive women, they usually choose ideal behaviour over ideal looks. It is the ones with low self esteem who choose good looks over good behaviour.
Does wishing him happy birthday make it look like I’m chasing him?
Me and this guy had a romantic connection in the past (no relationship). He didn't wish me happy birthday last year or this year. I didn't wish him a happy bday last year, but this year I did. Does is look like I'm...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is this shy gym guy now showing up with friends and smirking at me?
There's a guy at the gym who caught my eye and always got shy either looking down or would laugh shyly or avoid eye contact altogether. But when i stop looking at him saw him visibly upset. He would skip days and continue...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does it mean if a guy holds eye contact with you the most in a group conversation?
3 people including me but he’s primarily talking to the other person but he’s making eye contact with me but actually talking to them and the other person is looking at him talk.
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I attract men my own age when I look much younger than 38?
I don’t look my age and guys in their twenties hit on me a fair bit, rather than men my own age. I’m turning 38 this year and I want more older men to notice me. Not those who are much younger (more than 5 years younger)....
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Coworker at the gym keeps checking me out and smiling—does it mean anything?
and staring at me. And while he was doing that two of the guys that he works saw him. Then the next day when I went into the gym the guy that was checking me out wasn’t in there but the two guys that he works with were...
Anonymous
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PeterLegg91
Yoda Age: 35 Does true attraction disappear once you find out someone is taken?
There was a guy I used to think was a gorgeous 10 out of 10, then I learned he was taken, and now he looks like an ugly 1 out of 10 to me. I believe a normal person is wired to lose attraction to people they have no...
Coworker rumored to be dating a minor: how should I act at work?
I work at mcdonald's. My manager, and another crew member i get along with real well were talking about this new guy who started. Apparently he's 20 and dating a 14 year old. Thats all I heard from them. We all close...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 