What do men really look for in women over 30, beyond just looks?

[Anonymous]

I noticed guys don't seem to like or chase me.

It's not because of looks I know that.

So then why? It makes me wonder what's lacking in me..

[Anonymous]

Why do you think nuts not the looks? I’m interested to know how you came to that conclusion. Maybe it is. Are we looking from a female or male’s lens as far as what you look like? I ask because a lot of women will say their friend is gorgeous, she’s sweet, she’s a catch, that they don’t understand why she’s still single. Then you meet her friend and she’s a train wreck. Let’s just say it’s not the looks. Then chances are it’s your personality. Can’t be all the men you’ve dated that were screwed up.

[MissSunshine2]

I did hear from a very handsome guy I used to know, that has a modelling career now, that he had rejected me so harshly when I approached him, even though he was giving me signs of encouragement, because men are conditioned to be more careful these days, since the rise of the Me-Too movement. They're scared of being accused of rape or sexual harassment. I'm an attractive older woman who's had a chance at a modelling career myself, which didn't interest me. But anyway, my point being that if you're ok looking then it's really Not you. The guys on dating apps are usually losers, too.

You're going to have to do what I'm doing, try finding activities outside of work, school and friendship groups to meet guys in, like church, choir, sports, bushwalking groups, theatre groups, etc. My cousin met her partner at theatre group. I am trying out choir and church group.

[Nikki1989]

The same as another woman. Age changes nothing, despite what the usual delusional BlueAnon trolls will tell you.

[FunkyMonkee]

I'm looking for someone that's playful, has a great sense of humour, is fun to be with, especially nice if she likes most of the same food, movies, t. v. shows and records I like, looks nice, preferably with longer hair, rather tall, a great body, eyes, she's GOTTA have eyes! And a nice set of tits although, I can get past that rather easily.

[Anonymous]

Guys don't chase without reason to chase. Just being a woman is not enough. Why do sluts get hit on. It's not because they're sluts. It's because they understand that men have egos to. Man like to be shown interest and slots do that. Now sure they're typically just baiting men. She typically flirts and then walks away. But the point is she starts the interaction.

By the way, I'm not advocating just teasing men you have no interest in. I think that's wrong for anyone to do.

[Asker]

But do guys end up liking the sluts for real?

[Opinion Owner]

If she's a slut and he falls for her b. s. he's and idiot. I'm just telling you how sluts are able to lure men. These women stroke the man's ego a little bit. She's still typically a poor choice for a partner or she wouldn't be a slut. And that's assuming she has those kinds of motives, which typically she doesn't. These types of women generally only know one thing. How to manipulate men. By 30 most men have seen every game that's in a woman's bag. This is typically why women lose their power to manipulate men around that age.

[HighValue]

Past 30 = no value at all for a new relationship unless the man is also very low quality and desperate with no other options.

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[Anonymous]

Ultimately, what I want most is compatibility. Do I think I work with her? I only intend to date for marriage.

[NathanDavis]

the same as a woman just below 30

[Jeff51]

Smarts, intelligent, witty, has a job. Lol

[Caurav1997]

Attitude? Personality?

[Zionne]

calmness