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How do you feel about men who have a deep appreciation for the female aesthetic and physique?

Do you view it as a red flag? If so, is it because you feel like he's more likely to cheat or check out other women?
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Are women able to tell the red flags of controlling and manipulation from their boyfriends if they are in a relationship with them for 3 years?

I was able to tell immediately how a man who wants to be my boyfriend online started persuading me to do things I didn’t want to do. I also met him in real life but escaped from him when he wasn’t looking. I even found...
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I was able to tell immediately how a man who wants to be my boyfriend online started persuading me to do things I didn’t want to do. I also met him in real life but escaped from him Show More
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Guys, How do you react when a woman (you are one point interested in) starts going off on radical politics you don’t agree with?

This isn’t my first rodeo dealing with women who are obsessed about politics. I had been getting to know a young woman who I met in person once and been messaging since. She never brought up politics (and neither did I)...
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If a guy invites you over to his house for a movie date after one good date, is it a red flag?

I think I know the answer already, but still let’s hear it. Although he suggested alternatives as well in public or movie theatres when I strictly said no, but he also asked why I don’t trust him and promised not to...
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Yeah, if they don't introduce it's a red flag, but not necessarily if they aren't close
Yeah, not being close to either one is an instant red flag, regardless of reason
Yeah, either situation would be a red flag
Nah, I'm not close with them, so I can't judge
Nah, it wouldn't bother me
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What should I do?

My boyfriend recently reposted silently on Instagram. The post said when you finally find a green flag and realize that you are now the red flag in the relationship. He was hurt very badly in his last serious relationship...
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It's a red flag if your partner doesn't make an effort to integrate
Maintaining separate social circles healthy
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Would you consider yourself a hopeless romantic or just a romantic?

Here's Google definition of the two: Being a romantic means appreciating love and beauty in relationships, while a hopeless romantic takes it to an extreme, often ignoring red flags, believing in fairy-tale destiny...
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Is it a red flag when the woman never messages me first (but always responds when I message)?

I’ve started to get to know a young woman who I met a social gathering a few weeks ago. It’s been friendly / playful but I straight up told her at one point I was interested. That should be obvious to women when a man...
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Am I wrong for judging books by their covers?

My family has an empty apartment in the city center, and instead of handing it over to an agent, I decided to manage the rental myself. My only rule was "families or students only." I’m paranoid about this because years...
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If he tells you he’d do anything for his ex wife, is it a red flag?

I recently started dating a man with kids. On our date he mentioned he’d do anything for his ex wife as long as it wasn’t to his detriment. Am I reading too much into this or is it a red flag? Kinda got me worried about...
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Is it a red flag when a woman has two baby daddies one child from the first and two from the second?

Am I wrong if I kind of don't want to associate myself with this one chick at my church? She married the youth pastor and I see that people don't usually talk to her a lot I can see where the people are coming from cuz me...
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Girls, Does being on social security make you a loser?

I'm on social security because of physical abuse as a child that has left me unable to work. I have severe headaches and anxiety issues and hip problems because of it. I feel ashamed of myself for being on it. Im 42 and...
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Guys, Is he serious or playing with my feelings?

So, around 10 months ago I met a guy online. We spoke a lot, slept on call together despite a 9 hour time difference. (He would stay up through the night to talk with me - his job allowed this). Not long after I booked a...
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Why don’t people make healthier choices?

I got some blood work results back and there’s not any red flags, but there are some yellow flags which basically tell me I need to start making lifestyle changes if I want to avoid real problems later. That was enough to...
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Sign of maturity
Major red flag
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