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I really need your take on this. Okay so my boyfriend says he does a lot for me. He says he does sooo much for me and gives me his last.

But we do not ever go on dates our whole 6 month relationship only went on 1 date.

He spends money on Uber for me ( he doesn’t have a car)

he pays for the hotel ( because he stays with his family )

we have sex ( he wants a lot of sex and sometimes forces me or makes me feel bad if I don’t)

he buys me food when he sees me.

He also occasionally sends me 40/60$

Backstory: We’re acquaintances (friends of a friend.), we met at a party in the beginning of the year. He’d been trying to ask me out I had a lot of things happening all at once. Career change and moving figuring out if I’d continue to live in the area or find something back in my hometown. I stayed in the area, he helped me move my mattress. Then we’d been texting pretty much everyday and he’d FaceTime me twice just talking nothing crazy. I had car trouble, that he fixed. I couldn’t pay him he knows I cook so he asked me if that could be his payment. I said yeah. We were hanging out eating, smoked some weed and we both had stuff to get back to.

Current: I found free roller skating at a park and asked if he wanted to go. He said yes and it became a date. We ended up hooking up. We had some technical difficulties and planned for next weekend.

That next weekend, He asked if I still wanted to go to the movies with him, I said yes. Dressed a little fancy and we came back to my place to eat. We watched another movie he really wanted to see b/c he hadn’t seen it. Movie finished at 3am, I asked if he was going home he said he was really tired. I said he can sleep here if he wants he said yeah. Surprise he wasn’t that tired. We tried with the sex again. He thought he was hurting me I assured him he wasn’t. I don’t think he believed me and we just laid there talking for like a half hour and fell asleep. He also left his earring. I didn’t say anything about it though. After we were texting for four days. The responses weren’t dry or sparse everything normal. Then he suddenly stopped.

Should I text him just a simple “Hey, you good?” Or just keep being radio silent? I can at least think of five reasons: He’s not interested. He’s an introvert a social battery thing. Focused on finding a new apartment that I distracted him from twice. He actually wants a girlfriend (not sure why). Or it’s all those reasons. Should I just not say anything and leave him alone?

For the record we have NOT had sex. But he has NO issues sexting whatsoever.

However when I ask him to do a simple request - text to let me know if you're staying late at work so I don't think you got in a car accident or something - he can't do this.

3 times.

I even came up with a simple code game - like want fudge, yes / no (he likes fudge) - so he doesn't have to really think about his response if late & he still can't do it.

I understand working late, exhausted, etc and maybe rushing around.

I work in medical during COVID I oftentimes didn't have time to eat and yet I'd check my phone briefly even if in the washroom in case something happened with family (parents, brother).

And it's like he says one thing but his actions say very differently.