I 26F have met two guys I’ve been seeing almost a month now. I initially told both of them that I was looking to transition from having fun to looking for a more steady boyfriend.
One of them is 27 and told me he was just looking to have fun. I said that was probably ok and went along with it. He’s unable to drive his car rn so our get togethers always consist on me going to his place usually later at night and sometimes will stay over since he’s right down the street from my work and it saves me the morning commute. He’s still really sweet though and texts me nearly every day. We have interesting conversation and he’s amazing at sex and cuddly. I try to convince myself though that he was serious though when he said just wanted fun. As nice as he is though it’s hard to know for sure.
The other guy is 24. He has a little more means and always drives the 30 minutes to see me. We did go to the park on our first meeting, but every time after that he’d just come to my place to chill. Granted he does have late working hours sometimes but yeah. He didn’t tell me what he’s looking for but he does seem a little more interested and sends me hearts and sweet messages. We also are really comfortable with each other and seem to mesh well. He doesn’t have as much to work with in the bedroom department but still is a good time.
The problem is I enjoy hanging out with both of them but feel it is too much, especially for the second guy who may be more serious. Tbh though not sure what either of them wants for sure but think a few weeks in may be too soon to ask bc who knows that soon or do they? It makes me do this weird thing where if one is unavailable I go see the other one or end up seeing them two days back to back. I just feel like a player but I don’t want to let go of one guy just for the other to not be actually interested and then I’ve lost both. Help?
