Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up at least 2 months ago because he was "not ready" for any type of commitment. I was really devasted at this point because he soon told me that he had been feeling like he was losing feelings for me over the course of two weeks which made me even sadder. After that, we didn't have much communication only a "hey" or "how are you" text then and there. Then about a few days ago, my friend messaged him and asked him about me and he pretended not to know who I was. I was really mad about this because he had also blocked me on all social media accounts as to which also confused me since he had always said he wanted to still be friends after the whole breakup. So more weeks passed and about two nights ago, I finally realised that I should unblock him, because I realised it was childish so I did , and I decided to message him and ask him if we were still friends and he left me on read. What does that mean? Does he still have feelings for me? Is he over me? I'm not sure but he also told me that it takes him about 3 months for him to get over someone so I'm not sure. I really need advice, please help.
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Don't flog a dead horse. He's not interested. I think it's more about you wondering why you repelled somebody and you can't take it. Everybody fucks up with people in life. I've had more enemies that I can count. You can't please everybody all of the time. You can't even please some people some of the time. Your in danger of losing your dignity and self-respect. Sometimes you just have to take one on the chin, pick yourself up and move on. Trust me by this time next year you won't even be thinking about him0