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So I ended up dating someone this summer 3 months ago. I didn't know I was going to fall for him straight off the bad because he wasn't my Unitas type as always. He was 15 yeas older than me and has a lot more life experience then myself. However I began to notice little things , that I never let go un noticed normally. He was extremely mean to his mother and would go through periods of causing her out. And the last time he did so I ended up looking into places he could stay. Because she told him to get out. Although he started off very good and he told me I was his angle. He would do anything for me , he ended up coming to church with me and involving himself in my life. He still had his ways. He would get angry at me if I choose to spend time with my friends. He would tell me I was wrong for not staying with him. He would also get super mad if he thought I wore something too sexy. He would get really nasty to me and act out. He'd punch the wheel of his car till he broke out in a sweat , and curse everyone around him out. And once he got that out he would tell me that this was only his frustration. And the next day he would be better. He would then tell me my weekends belonged to him , therefore I was to always spend them with him. My family and friends began to get super suspicious, because they stared noticing me moving in his direction more so. I would I just listen to everything he said because I thought inwas helping. And me coming from a religious background , I thought I was supposed to be submissive. He was very aggressive while I was very mile mannered. He wanted to spend every waking moment with me , showing up unannounced. It's like he had no shame , the more I'd try to help him get a place he was happy in his car and wanted to entertain a life with me like that. He started off amazing and waa really good to me. Then he got comfortable. Trying to impregnate me every time he'd release. There was no baby coming with no place for it.

If you buy lingerie as a present, is it something the wearer is gifted with or the partner, because they see it and most often like to see it on her. I could also understand that it's for her, as she likes to wear it to feel good. The third option is that it's more of a thing to buy together for both partners. The third option would make it unsuitable as a present though in my opinion.
Lets be honest the majority of people who are into women, like to see them in lingerie, so it would make sense to gift that to them the view. Also a lot of women feel especially sexy when wearing sexy lingerie.
On the other hand this makes perfect sense to buy together because it is rarely used when alone, can this be a gift though?
P. S: Again not sure about the category. I will put it into shopping and gifts as it is specifically about the situation of gifting. Could also be fashion, or sexuality though.