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How To Find The Good In Others

How to find the good in others



When you wanna have a postive life finding the good in the people around you is an important thing, but that isn't always easy.


DON’T COMPARE


Compare someone with others and surely you will find faults, so don’t compare. Really important not to compare your partner with others or even ex-lovers.


FOCUS ON THE PRESENT


Don’t think too much about what someone has done in the past, that will makei t almost impossible sometimes to find the good in someone. Let go of the grudge and focus on the present. People do change, pay attention to these changes instead of the mistaes in the past.


DROP YOUR ASSUMPTIONS


With assumptions about someone you make it hard for yourself to find the good in someone. When someone annoys you, it’s of course an option to look for annoying behaviour but that way you won’t find the good.


CULTIVATE CURIOSITY


Being intrested in the other helps a lot to find the good in someone. When you know someone it becomes easier to have connection together and find the positive.


EXPECT THE BEST INTENTIONS


This goes hand in hand with dropping your assumptions. Expecting the best of the people around you helps you to find the good in those people. Surely not everyone will always be friendly and nice to you, but doesn’t mean they have bad intentions to wards you.


APPRECIATE THE FLAWS


Who’s perfect?? The first perfect person I still have to meet. Accepting that we all are in someone inperfect makes it easier to find the good in the other.


It isn’t always easy to find the good in others and sometimes very hard, even almost impossible but try and you will succeed.


When people are asked who was the most awfull person of the last 100 years mostly they will go for Hitler probably. The other day I was watching tv and there was someone reading a beautiful poem. The poem was about the love of someone for his mother, maybe you already can guess that the writer was Hitler. When he was able to write such a poem about the love he feels for his mother then there is something good in him too I think. Now we can say there was something good too in Hitler, then surely you can find something good in your neighbour, co-worker, class mate, teacher, family member and so on.

How To Find The Good In Others
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