Why humans choose to be good, despite the hardships

[jennifer_bloom]

Rabbi Manis Friedman says that human beings need to be do and believe in good in order to be truly happy inside. We were not programmed to hate and this is why bullies and abusers are miserable and often suffering severe traumas. Until you learn to do and love what is good, you will be miserable and unhappy. Healthy and normal people get happiness when they help others and normal people get unhappiness when they hurt others. That’s how humans are made.

[AndrésC64]

Because we are a social species and like every other social species on the planet we all do better when we cooperate. That means don't steal my shit and I won't steal your shit. Don't lie about me and I won't lie about you. Help me and I'll help you.

[Debbie14217]

its the way we are

[ohsheeT]

I think no matter who you are what you believe in whether you're good or bad we all want to succeed there is a bigger meaningful thing out there that we don't understand that we're all trying to get to I think we all have that just in human nature alone but none of us stop to think about what it really is it's hard to be good because it takes work in the beginning it's really really easy to be a bad person to take from people to steal from people because you just don't care you don't care who you hurt Who You Are or who you're seeing to be but if you notice it's really really hard to be a good person like I said in the beginning we all strive to be that good person people don't understand who we are what we're all about and if you think about it when becoming this good person we experience good things we just don't take it far enough we get to a point and we stop will people have to understand to become a good person it's very very simple it's very easy that is number one love yourself if you love yourself you love everything else depending on the level that you love yourself when you love yourself you see things right wrong yes no hello goodbye positive negative God devil but if you find yourself and really love yourself all you see is one of those choices you don't have anymore judgments on anybody you don't have opinions about anybody you don't talk crap about anybody you help people if you see them out of the blue because you want to help them not because you're asked but when you are good and you have no more judgments in your happy the life is just more better you have become one with yourself we're supposed to experience things in life from day one we experience walking when we fall down we get back up we fall down we get back up we fall down we get back up and we keep experiencing things every single day no matter how old you are to this point and the better you become at something the happier you are the better the experience the more you understand when you can come one with somebody when you become one with yourself and you understand there is no more judgments you are you and you love everything and everybody unconditionally that means you are one with this universe we were all meant to be one together but we're all individuals and we look at things different and we are not taught this we are not taught to be one with everything with this universe this planet is alive it breathes it feeds it eats it loves against just like what we're supposed to do it is pure energy this planet is we are energy the universe is energy if our God is energy or whoever you think you're God is if you become one with everything and this universe you have is a 16th there is no more hate there is no more bad there's no more evil you are happy that's our goal that's our life that's our job is to become one with the universe when you can do that you go on to bigger higher places I believe because we are all energy energy Never Dies if you are racist if you're angry if you're evil you have to come back to this planet and live life again until you get it right until you can become one with you with other people in this universe

[JustAnj]

I do this, why would I want to be something that contributes to pain over someone that contributes to empower love.

This love is equally for myself as it is for everyone and some are barely learning what self love and love truly means.

Some may think the definition of self love is to be selfish, it's actually to be understanding of growth and others differences may they not be yours. It's being able to respect others so you respect yourself, and it's knowing that the choices people make are thiers to improve or continue and for you to accept for who they are today may or may not change tomorrow. You can be supportive or walk away with respect without allowing it to affect your souls light.

This is self love, this is self respect understanding others and understanding yourself. Respect others as you should respect yourself.

Love is acceptance Love is understanding Love is keeping the light bright in darkness. Love is eternal and Love is you today, tomorrow, forever.

[Tanhoaon]

Try to think the contrast, if humans choose not to be good, what will happen? I believe blood will pour into the river a lot.

[grega239]

Im guessing because life is easier if we're nice to each other