If someone asks about their looks, especially on this website, they shouldn't cry and be upset when people call them ugly or fat. It's the internet, people are brutally honest. If you can't handle what they have to say about you, then don't post your pictures online and ask for an opinion. Obviously I'm not gonna go up to a random person and call them fat. But if someone literally ASKS what I think of their body, i'm gonna say the truth.
I think it's okay to be honest WHEN someone is ASKING for a opinion on their body. Of course it's just rude to go around and call people ugly, but when someone clearly wants to hear what people think, they can't assume it all to be positive. And when it comes to weight, being under or overweight is unhealthy and I don't think it's body shaming to tell someone to lose or gain some weight.
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I do agree that not all advice is body shaming, that's stupid. However, even negative feedback can be worded politely and you should be aware that there is a person who most likely is going to read what you're saying. Plus, I still don't think that you can see how healthy a person is from a simple picture, unless they are either horrifyingly thin or obese. In which case they most likely know they're not healthy. Still, thank you for your opinion on the subject of body shaming :)
If we dont fat shame then women will think its okay and take pride in being obese. Am sorry woman but fat is just grotesque and its within your control to sort it out. Women and feminists like you just want to be highly valued for being overweight, go to the gym and stop being so lazy. Stop trying to tbe an attention whore because of all the suffering you got to go through because your fat. Time to woman up now cupcake.
@Hihikinn well we are body shamed just look at advertising, its the same with men. We dont moan about it like you women do. Feminism doesn't care about body shaming... they care about female body shaming.
then you should like feminism because from your veiw, feminists don't care about male body shaming. It's actually very good for men to not value their fat body and help them in good shape?
yeah it does. I've shamed a lot of girls into becoming skinny. you're just fat and in denial
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Listen, maybe I am. But I wasn't even fat when the body shaming started. My weight was perfectly in the normal range, I was just a few pounds heavier than the other girls and guess what happened? I got depressed and stress ate until I was 30 pounds overweight, which resulted in me being even more body shamed and trying to be ANOREXIC. That's the thing you're going for? I'm back to a normal weight now but 4 years of depression, almost developing a life threatening eating disorder and suicidal phases? Definitely could've lived without that and so can all other people.
Every fat person is in the normal range and the depression lol. The only reason you lost weight was because people made you feel like shit for looking like that. So, yeah it did work. I love how many thumbs down replies I got even though I've helped more women than any of these haters ever could.
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If someone asks about their looks, especially on this website, they shouldn't cry and be upset when people call them ugly or fat. It's the internet, people are brutally honest. If you can't handle what they have to say about you, then don't post your pictures online and ask for an opinion.
Obviously I'm not gonna go up to a random person and call them fat. But if someone literally ASKS what I think of their body, i'm gonna say the truth.
I think it's okay to be honest WHEN someone is ASKING for a opinion on their body. Of course it's just rude to go around and call people ugly, but when someone clearly wants to hear what people think, they can't assume it all to be positive.
And when it comes to weight, being under or overweight is unhealthy and I don't think it's body shaming to tell someone to lose or gain some weight.
I do agree that not all advice is body shaming, that's stupid. However, even negative feedback can be worded politely and you should be aware that there is a person who most likely is going to read what you're saying. Plus, I still don't think that you can see how healthy a person is from a simple picture, unless they are either horrifyingly thin or obese. In which case they most likely know they're not healthy.
Still, thank you for your opinion on the subject of body shaming :)
If we dont fat shame then women will think its okay and take pride in being obese. Am sorry woman but fat is just grotesque and its within your control to sort it out. Women and feminists like you just want to be highly valued for being overweight, go to the gym and stop being so lazy. Stop trying to tbe an attention whore because of all the suffering you got to go through because your fat. Time to woman up now cupcake.
What? I am lazy and skinny.
So, should i shame all the guys who have belly fat so that they can be in shape? Is it okay?
@Hihikinn well we are body shamed just look at advertising, its the same with men. We dont moan about it like you women do. Feminism doesn't care about body shaming... they care about female body shaming.
then you should like feminism because from your veiw, feminists don't care about male body shaming. It's actually very good for men to not value their fat body and help them in good shape?
People should help other people into healthy weight range in my opinion. Not to shame, it doesn't do any good for the person's mentality.
if you have a condition no one should be shaming you.
if you're just lazy fat fk, then dont complain when people shame you.
Why should I put pressure on people, they have enough on their plate.
I have an eating disorder from fear of people body shaming me.
You can defeat your eating disorder, I believe in you! :)
Fat shaming is a GOOD THING! You're the one who's promoting obesity and ugliness!
I have to tell fat people they are fat or else Krampus will punish me.
yeah it does. I've shamed a lot of girls into becoming skinny. you're just fat and in denial
Listen, maybe I am. But I wasn't even fat when the body shaming started. My weight was perfectly in the normal range, I was just a few pounds heavier than the other girls and guess what happened? I got depressed and stress ate until I was 30 pounds overweight, which resulted in me being even more body shamed and trying to be ANOREXIC. That's the thing you're going for? I'm back to a normal weight now but 4 years of depression, almost developing a life threatening eating disorder and suicidal phases? Definitely could've lived without that and so can all other people.
Every fat person is in the normal range and the depression lol. The only reason you lost weight was because people made you feel like shit for looking like that. So, yeah it did work. I love how many thumbs down replies I got even though I've helped more women than any of these haters ever could.
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