Stop body shaming!

[Anonymous]

I was just at the mall with a friend of mine that bought a pair of shorts she's a size 5 and she got laughed at and called far because she's a 5!

Not everyone's body looks like a Barbie doll. We are not perfect and society makes young girls feel they are ugly because they're not Barbie dolls. Even young men have to deal with the same thing. Some people, men and women are shaped differently. Some are born with wide hips and a big chest, those girls will never be a size zero. Even if they starved themselves for days on end.

To the girls that are Barbie type, nothing wrong with it but don't laugh at other girls who just want to feel comfortable in their own skin! Trust me I am sure some girls like my best friend would love to be your size. She can't help she's not, it's how her body is shaped. Not everyone who isn't a zero, is fat and unhealthy.

To the ladies and men that are In a size larger than a 5!

Girl, you are beautiful and born this way for a reason, if you are healthy be happy sweetheart! If you have those "thick" thighs and wide hips, I would be happy to look like you! Don't let anyone man or female tell you you are fat when you know damn well you can't help the body shape! Don't let it tear you down, don't stop eating, please! Ignore those people!

if you are healthy and doctors tell you your healthy, be proud of what you have! If you are unhealthy, please try to get better but don't let mean people, stop you from trying to get healthy!

Dont be so mean! Not everyone is built the same! Not everyone who isn't a size zero is fat and unhealthy. People that do this cause others anorexia and bulimia.

[electrikrainb0w]

I think it's ridiculous (even from my end on the 0-sizes). I do not eat healthy and I eat large quantities... but I'm skinny. I've gone out before, into public, eating donuts or ice cream or whatever and no one says a thing. I can be ridiculously unhealthy around others and people don't seem to care. Some even laugh and often joke (lovingly) that I'm a "fatass at heart". I've never had anyone tell me to eat healthy, I've never had anyone judge me or insult me for eating unhealthy foods in public.

Yet... I see larger girls eating unhealthy foods called out and insulted. Even worse, I've seen larger girls get called out, insulted, and told to be healthier when they are eating healthy foods out in public. People judge them harshly when they eat unhealthy, but still judge even when they eat healthy. They judge them no matter what they do but leave me unscathed.

I'm no more healthy than a lot of people. It's stupid that it's okay for me to be unhealthy without being judged, while a larger girl gets judged even if she is eating healthy.

[myTake Owner]

I even have small friends that get their feelings hurt by people telling them they need meat on their bones. It's just a really messed up society lol.

[Anonymous]

If women stop worshipping models and celebs, we wouldn't have this problem. .

[JensonStatement]

Everybody is born in their size but you're not born as an obese kid or like an skeleton xylophone.
But i especially go after the fat ones.
You are beautiful the way you are but it kills you to be an obese because you have higher risks to heartfailure. When do people get it. if you want food and dick don't force people by the law to love you.
You can not be fat (unhealthy way) and hide after the curvy tag. Curvy is having a shape of a female. For those fat people who do that, you're not #curvy but #unhealthy and get that for once. We care about you yes and you keep rejecting that and see that as an insult. Does the doctor insult you too if he's saying that you should lose some weight. Also don't shame skinny women for being skinny. That's how they are.

[myTake Owner]

I said if your unhealthy and overweight try to get healthy. But if you have big hips, ass, breasts and thighs and the doctor says your healthy, don't starve yourself to be a size 0 when your body will never be that small. I'm not saying eat all the cookies in the world and pig out. I'm saying don't starve yourself for a size 0 when you'd have your bones sticking through your shirt and deathly sick.

[myTake Owner]

I don't shame skinny women either.

[JensonStatement]

If you are like that; I'm proud to read that but most people aren't like that or let me say "the people who try to hide after the curvy tag."
If i was offending you it was not my purpose.

[myTake Owner]

Oh my bad. I thought you were saying I hide behind the curvy tag. I apologize. I understand there are ladies who weigh over 200 that claim curvy. I agree. That's not right. That's obese. There is a different between the two. Most of society think curvy is another word for obese. I agree with you. Thank you I appreciate that.

[Phoenix98]

Sorry but I can't and wait adhere to fat acceptance being unhealthy is being unhealthy period and it will shorten your life span and kill you and will lead and open your body open to so much disease and sickness.

You don't have to be size zero but if you are within unhealthy levels and your weight is affecting your health, then you need to make a difference and if being blunt is what is required so be it. But you can't always pussyfoot around the subject.

[myTake Owner]

She's not over weight or unhealthy. She just has big hips. She weights 140 at 5"2. Her stomach is flat and even hard as a rock. Lol. If someome is obese and overweight I agree something needs to be done

[Phoenix98]

I wasn't talking about her specifically just in general.

[langolier87]

not trying to be a dick but i would say that this is only true to an extent.
i was most certainly not born looking the way that i do today and i cared to change the way i look enough then i would change the way i look and could do so in a healthy way.

[Anonymous]

Your friend must be content with her weight. No one should judge others when they aren't perfect themselves!

[myTake Owner]

She is. But when they did that to her, she left the shorts and walked out of the mall. We had the whole day planned and everything, she just wanted to go home.

[Opinion Owner]

Such a shame! They had no right to do that she should of got the shorts and ignored the comments! ☺

[Sunflower19]

I ♡ my thick thighs, big boobs, big butt and wide hips!! 😄

[Anonymous]

in my opinion just start eating healthy. you dont know how much work we have done to stay in shape. how many nights we had to sleep not having food and feeling hungry sometimes and wait till morning. IF you're fat you're fat (u need to lose weight), if you're thin you're thin. it's easy just eat healthy. im not saying get a plastic surgery or change ur looks. This annoys me

[Kuraj]

"Don't let it tear you down, don't stop eating, please! Ignore those people!"

Yes! Enjoy your diabetes and dying to coronary heart disease in your 40ties!
Not feeling like shit because you don't have rolls of fat wearing down your joints is totally overrated!
Just be a lazy useless prick who doesn't care about themselves and others!
Eating a few too many burgers is totally worth all that!

[myTake Owner]

I wasn't talking about that! If your a 120 pounds at 5 foot tall don't make yourself sick and stop eating so you can be 80 pounds and look like a damn skeleton! I'm saying eat yourself to death. I'm 125 pounds I'm not going to stop eating food because my thighs touch. My doctors said I'm at healthy weight so I'll eat like I do now. I'm not going to be 80 pounds to impress people. I rather not be able to play my rib cage as an instrument. The message is don't be bulimic or anorexic.

[myTake Owner]

Not saying eat yourself to death

[John_Doesnt]

These feminist body shaming rants are getting annoying.

[Anonymous]

Fuck this. Being overweight is unhealthy, and fat shaming is an effective method to get people to look better and become healthy. Enough with this body acceptance bullshit. Humiliate them if you have to, it's a health issue more than anything else.

[Polocrew]

Lol someone can't get laid, are you sure it was your friend or was it u

[myTake Owner]

It was her -.-. Sadly I am 110. I wish I had her body size

[Anonymous]

Oh shut the hell up with that crap. If you can't take a few insults, than you're not cut out for life. Life is hard and tough and those who are over sensitive to WORDS, are going to fail in this world.

[Anonymous]

its people's choice or not somthing that they can control so i don't judge