#FatShaming, Lose the HATE

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#FATSHAMING is a form of bullying

#FatShaming, Lose the HATE

You may be wondering why I am writing this mytake, it started because two people wrote takes about #FATSHAMING and I wanted to add an opinion on it.

People in this day and age think it is okay to bully other people around, well I’m sorry it doesn’t work that way, and I’m sorry if you think you're perfect in comparison. You’ll only end up making them feel horrible and/or them taking their own life. How do you feel to think that you could be responsible that your comment could hurt them so much?

It’s better you be their friend and encourage them to change their ways if possible.

#FatShaming, Lose the HATE

Many people suffer with depression for many different reasons, one of them could be because they are overweight, with how many illnesses are in this world today that have been diagnosed, and they may not be able to help themselves.

I’m not saying that being overweight is good, but it may not be their fault, and nor should they be shamed into doing something because maybe they can’t.

I know someone from a distance thankfully not upfront, being obese/fat was his choice, he’s attracted to bigger women so he decided to become one himself, he is always complaining about walking because it makes him so tired and he doesn’t care. He still keeps overeating, not worrying about his calories or how much exercise he gets or whether his clothes fit properly.

These words go along perfectly for what the person being bullied might think...

"I know you have the best intentions, just trying to find the right words to say. It's always going to stay the same, so let me just give up, so let me just let go. If this isn’t good for me, well I don’t want to know, let me just stop trying, let me just stop fighting. I don’t want your good advice or reasons why or reasons why I’m alright, you don’t know what it’s like. Can’t stop these feet from sinking and its starting to show on me, you’re staring while I’m blinking but just don’t tell me what you see. Is it ever going to change?"

A majority of people that are depressed would think something along the lines of this.

#FatShaming, Lose the HATE
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