You may have come across some people who hate you for the reasons you don't know about.
They may hate you for some reasons or the other like:
1. You have something that they think you don't deserve.
2. Their partner admire you.
3. Maybe you are better looking than almost everyone.
4. You excel at your work/studies.
Etc.
This might be confusing and troubling you but hey, its a good thing. Feel proud. Let me show you how.
Take their hate as a blessing to you. They maybe too reluctant to find a minute fault in you and when they do it, you know what that fault is. GET TO WORK. REMOVE THAT FAULT. Oops! Looks like someone's getting even more hated. Don't worry, they're gonna regret it, if they don't make them by getting good at things you like.
To understand them, you should know that it is them with whom there is something wrong, not you. These people already have something wrong going in their lives. Just don't bother paying attention to the things they say. You may feel a grudge against them, but seriously it just isn't worth it. Ignore them.
If you are new to this 'having-haters' thing, it is very normal to have a grudge against your haters. But okay, its reasonable to get annoyed as they annoy you. But till when are you gonna fight them just because you know they hate you for something which you're good at? Just don't.
Feel proud in having haters. You know they hate you for something that you have and they don't. They're indirectly telling you that 'Hell yeah, you are better than me that's why we hate you.' But of course they use different methods to show that to you.
Having haters means you're famous. Oh come on! You're good at something. In fact that good that people get jealous of you and are forced to hate you. Their hate makes YOU famous.
If no one hates you, trust me, you're doing something boring.
You just need to empathise them and to some extent, sympathise. Just don't waste too much of your time dealing with them, rather, try making yourselves better.
In the end, I would like to conclude that you should feel good in having haters only when you're 100% sure you haven't done anything wrong.
To make sure, you can try and stay reasonably polite to people and try to get along with them. If they show repulsive behaviour against you, you know what's that for. You just scored a hater.
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Agreed. Soak up their bitterness and enjoy it. I can do without the famous bit to be honest (I don't like attention), but if you agitate people to the point that they can't stand you for just being yourself? It's the best feeling in the world (especially since you know you didn't do anything to cause it).
One thing I've noticed is the more unique a person is, the more they are hated. If you do what everyone else does, think like everyone else, things will go very smoothly for you and everyone will like you. If you do something different, everyone hates you.
@Dragonz1 Yes. If you're a conformist, you're on everyone's good side. I'm not that type of person: I can't suck up to people nor can I willingly go ahead with something I don't believe in.
That's a great quality.
I agree. You don't need to feel proud about having haters though lol