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I am normally a very calm person, takes a lot to piss me off, but when I loose it externally its all fire and brimstones from me, revenge is so cold its frozen. ex 1Had an ex, she cheated several times, forgave her each time, told her she was crossing lines and there would be hell to pay. she ignored warning, cheated again, but this time rubbed my nose in it. She forgot about the pics of her posing naked and with the use of various toys I had of her (I made sure my face was never in these photos). Like I said, she forgot about them, I didn't, and neither did her mother who received them via email. (Set it up to go out with out going mail next time she emailed guy she was cheating on me with since she was to have no contact with him as part of our agreement)ex 2afterwards started dating another girl, things got physical for about a month then she told me she had a fience...I contacted fience and told him date of our next hook up and didn't go. Didn't want to be the cheater.ex 3Had another ex tell me she had my kid, told her rents it was mine too. Math was off and kid would have spent a year in mommy to be born, called her on it and when she admitted, I made her tell her parents that she didn't know who the baby daddy was.ex 4Had ex friends with benefits threaten my fience to hurt me. I got her fired from her full-time job and made her move out of town. Final nail was I had Humane Society take her pets due to poor living conditions (I knew when her cats litterbox was full and when they ysually ran out of food during the week.)And you should see what happens when I really get mad. Oddly enough, I dont get physical, I give people plenty of chances to change, and only get mad when they threaten my future or the people I care about.
I'm not really a vengeful person by nature. I'm pretty forgiving. I'm not sure if this counts, but a while ago I made the decision that when I have children in the future, they'll never be alone with my dad. But that's not revenge; I just don't really trust him. He was very emotionally and verbally abusive to me growing up.
I've never really done much revenge, since I feel it should be so terrible you need to fear any backlash... I almost drew and shot a guy once. (He would've deserved it, but didn't give me an excuse. I still had a chambered Sig in my hand though.) And I almost set someone up once to get arrested on felony charges and go to prison.
Why'd you nearly shoot him?
Family dispute. My mom had a nasty conflict going with my mother, and I stepped in to keep it from crossing a line, so she sicked her boyfriend on me, who was making threats, trying to get me to fight him, like that. So, first and last time I met him, I had a loaded Sig Sauer in my pocket. I flipped him off and gave him a criticism, but he didn't take the bait. So I couldn't do anything. I had a Criminal Law class in college, I wasn't about to start something without covering my rear.
None so far. It takes a lot to piss me off. But I'm in the midst of writing a letter of payment to a former roommate for monies owed on rent. I'm pretty set on this one, even if it means dragging it to small claims so a judge can embarrass her a bit.
No I am not as long as i have the capacity to take it or ignore.Most that I did: I had a colleague fired and also blocked ALL his efforts to get re-hired in other teams/department of the company (a 50,000+ US financial giant).
That's pretty bad! Lol
Oh you would do exactly the same if u were in my shoes... And much sooner than I acted.
What did he do to deserve it?
Besides, i am an extremely patient and forgetting person. So much that my close ones get sick of me. But if the balloon pops eventually, it blows up like a shit-bomb.
He was unprofessional, incompetent, maxe stories behind the back; didn't know shit about the work but after taking help, he would have these hidden meetings with the bosses showing up that he managed everything on his own.BESIDES: a repulsive; unhygienic personality.
But what did he do?
Oh, just saw that.
I suppose he learned his lesson! Damnnn.
He was such a moron, he would never change.
Im really not the vengeful type. But there have been a few times where I've made some pretty nasty retorts in public that MAY been too far. But it takes a lot to get me that heated.
What was something you said?
Eh shit said towards to me doesn't really bother me unless its really fucking cutting, but what Im thinking of is - I did this after school program in highschool was a community service based program and there was like 10-12 of us in there and one girl was mentally handicapped. So one day we had our meeting and I was walking out and some asshole made a comment about the girl in there and it was not a nice one. And basically I just tore into this guy who basically had a reputation as a fuck up and I honestly I just took it way too FAR. Like I was really truly cruel, but his comment just ticked me off to no end.
That's good. He deserved it. People who make fun of the disabled/handicapped are disgusting.
Oh I know it was disgusting, but I think I was just as bad just in a different way. I was really frigging mean.
My sister called me a bitch so I poked holes in her clothes.
I had sex with my ex's best friend cuz he was talking shit
I don't seek revenge cause itcan come back and get you
I tore my sisters' barbies' heads off and my mom slapped me lol
I destroyed a persons religious beliefs after they tried to convince me their faith was reasonable
That's kinda badass.
That's kinda unnecessary.
and so was making that comment. We don't always do things out of necessity
I see. I guess that's the difference between kind people and unkind people. I hope one day you learn to treat people with kindness and dignity, as my faith has taught me to treat people. Both of you.
I would say kindness includes enlightening ignorant people about propaganda and lies. Religion is a disgusting system of manipulation and fraud. If you think it's unkind to tell people that the earth orbits the sun, for example, you are very naive and have an extremely skewed conception of morality
I'm only vengeful in my head.
I humiliated a guy in public and made him cry.
What did you do to humiliate him? 😳
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