Why almost all guys think that they should protect girls?

[Roxy-lady-kin]

Why almost all guys think that they should protect girls? I'm a really tiny girl and my boyfriend thinks that he should protect me and that's a big problem for me.

[SoccerGuy]

It's not that we think you need protection because you can't take care of yourself...

if a girl is very special to me I don't want anything to happen to her because I don't want to see her upset or hurt so I try to protect her. I guess it's just male instinct, look at any animals- for the most part the males take care of the women and children. and after all, humans are animals...

[lovebird01]

Its a natural thing that all guys do for women. It has nothing to do with your physical size or ability to do things for yourself. Guys just naturally take care of girls! You shouldn't let it bother you; why would it be a big problem for you?

[Miss_All_Time_Low]

Lol. Why is it a BIG problem for you?

You should be happy he cares so much about you that he feels protective towards you. Or would you rather be with a guy that backs off and lets you deal with a few tough guys or violence by yourself?

[DSsgurl16]

Because they feel it's their role to protect us but if you are an independent women you don't really need a man to protect you. I guess it makes them feel weird if they don't try to protect us they feel they are not really being a man.

[Deeplove55]

No. Thats just natural for guys to protect girls. Its a dominant, manly thing they do. you don't want no weak guy who can't protect you if you need it, right? Why does it bother you? I'm curious.

[rosynante]

Why is it a problem? I'm tiny too but I think it's so cute when a guy gets protective. As long as he's not pyscho about it, of course!

[loveAnsweringOldQS]

It's not that we think you need protection because you can't take care of yourself...

if a girl is very special to me I don't want anything to happen to her because I don't want to see her upset or hurt so I try to protect her. I guess it's just male instinct, look at any animals- for the most part the males take care of the women and children. and after all, humans are animals...

[livelaughlove09]

i think it's just something they do.it's a good thing.they don't want you to get hurt so they handle things for you even if it means being hurt themselves.

[BlackSuperman]

Coz that's how we as men are raised... would you rather that we ddnt gv a damn about the safety of 'the fairer sex'?

[Anonymous]

Its a natural trait of men. Also, you shouldn't make a problem out of it.

[NickAB1]

We just feel the need to protect females. Plus, seeing men are physically stronger, it's kind of our job to be the "bodyguard" if you will.

[j-yoseph]

we just have the urge to naturaly

[Simba501]

I feel obligated