How can I wrap a guy around my finger?

[Anonymous]

There is a guy, he is in a relationship and I first met him 1 year ago. There definitely is a chemistry between us. We have never kissed or done anything but we both know that we have feelings for each other.

How can I get him? I want him so bad.

[Anonymous]

well my boyfriend was dating a girl for a long time when we met, he seriously thought he loved her. I wanted him the day I saw him, it was like hearing music for the first time. but since he was with her I respected it and was just his friend and didn't tell him what I felt cause if a friendship is all I could have I wasn't going to put it in jepordy. try to just get close to this guy, if he needs to tlk about his relationship, then give him advice,once my boyfriend did, and yes I took advantage and made myself look good (I was dying inside lol) he said his girlfriend joked on how he dressed and it hurt his feelings so I told him to tell her that but mentioned how I looooved how he dressed and didn't comprehend how she couldnt. so basically wait for him,support him, just treat him like your best friend. because if he has feelings for you already then he must not be fully in love with this girl and will eventually venture away. end of my story basically I waited 3 years it was complete torture to were I couldn't look at him in the eyes at times. one day he asked me if I wanted to hang out and drink some beer watch tv yadda yadda and I took advantage and made him laugh but acted like a lady,buddy at the same time...i guess the alcohol made his eyes open cause that night he finally fell in love with me and we have been together ever since. I'm sorry if I sound devious but sometimes when your in love, you loose your mind lol. I hope I helped a bit, good luck.

[Abbylovesherbf]

Almost the same thing happend with me and my bf. lol

[Str8Jokester]

Tooooo funny , but really cute at the same time lol

[Jtmatt]

Well, there is nothing you can really do about that. He is taken. You should just be his friend.