Are there any men like Rhett butler anymore?

[iamyourneighbor]

He's like the alpha male to me. Wealthy, but he does not need his money to attract women, tall, tan, dark hair, in shape but no too muscular and not too fat, he has an attainable weight, charming, he's not a spoiled brat who got everything handed to him in life, dominate, good in Bed, upfront, self confident, honest

[lilac_flowers]

Feminism killed them. You try being born with a penis, spending your whole life in a culture that tells you you should be nice, you are a potential rapist, you have to respect women no matter what they're like, in schools with zero tolerance for boyish wildness, next to a feminist mother who dominates your father, stupid public figures who tell you big muscles and a beard means you're a man, feminist TV programs mocking masculinity at every turn, turning it into a parody, escaping into video games, movies and comic books to self insert as a hero and feel like a man, in which you're told you need a special power to do it and it's ok if you're a shy, emasculated little fag beforehand, because you'll be bitten by a radioactive spider and all you emasculation will magically go away, try going into a workplace where a woman can report you for saying she's pretty, or even for wearing a shirt with naked women, where your sexuality is demonised at every turn as misogynistic, evil and then tell me... Can you be a man? Can you now after all this act dominant, act confident, be honest? Seriously?

Only guys who are either really smart to be able to detach from cultural conditioning, overcome it and teach this to themselves, or find real men to emulate can do that.
Or guys who are sociopaths and just experiment until they wrongly conclude masculinity, giving yourself permission to speak, to lead means to abuse people too. Those sociopaths are also manly.

If you want a manly man, you may have to move depending on the level of feminism in your country.

[iamyourneighbor]

I live in America so feminism is high

[lilac_flowers]

Not all of America is screwed tho. I've lived in it. Majority is screwed, but not all of it.

My suggestion is to seek out male conservatives. If all you know about them is from the media, you may roll your eyes at this, but not all of them are the tea party. Many guys who lean right are very smart, can be agnostic, atheist, pro choice, bit more or less free market, government involvement what have you... But they're leaning right, they'll also be a lot more likely to have balls, than male liberals.
Target red states.

[iamyourneighbor]

I thought people did not live in Antarctica

[lilac_flowers]

XD I just put that so people don't ask. I don't want such information on this site.

[iamyourneighbor]

So I'm guessing you live in America since you brought up that you lived in America lol

[lilac_flowers]

No, my parents moved to my home country when I was 14.

[iamyourneighbor]

No one is going to stalk you if you put wjetf you live on your profile lol
If your profile is private before you change it no one will see it not even me

[iamyourneighbor]

*where
Besides they don't list cities they onlylist the country lol

[lilac_flowers]

I don't care.

[Tromba]

Rhett was imaginary. Clark Gable on the other hand was real. He had horrible breath due to bad teeth and was a poor lover and mama's boy by all accounts.

Gary Cooper on the other hand was the stuff. Mae West and Clara Bow had no use for men who couldn't perform.

[iamyourneighbor]

I know that Rhett is not real duh

[Tromba]

I was just pointing out how real people are different from the constructions we make. Margaret Mitchell loosely based Rhett Butler on a man she knew (she excised the bad parts) but in real life he was an asshole. Which makes much more sense if you ask me.

[iamyourneighbor]

Of course she needed a good character

[LiveFreeorDieHard]

Get out there and look for him. I bet your one of those girls who stay at home and complain ib the internet. that you can't get a guy. Put yourself out there and if they find you attractive, they will go after you. By the way, there is no such thing as alpha males.

[iamyourneighbor]

Or maybe you should stop assuming stupid shit about people you don't know on the internet