Does losing respect for someone means that you're judging them?

[LittleSally]

Yes.

No.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

What's wrong with that? We pass judgments every single day it's how we decide what we like from what we don't like. The only time a judgement is a bad thing is if it's a hypocritical one, but if someone has done something you view as foul and you've lost respect for them you have every right to do so. Why do you think you have friends? You judged these people and decided they were pretty awesome which resulted in a friendship. Same concept, just a different outcome.

[LittleSally]

Nice answer. =)

I always feel bad for judging others. I never saw it as a way to protect myself. xD

[Cookies_AndMilk]

Thank you :)

And yeah girl judge away, don't feel bad it's necessary for life! lol.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

Thanks for the MHO! <3

[LittleSally]

Best answer should get a reward. =)

[Cookies_AndMilk]

You're too kind. :)

[Sara413]

Of course it is - you lose respect for someone because you make a judgment about them.

This idea that judging people is always a bad thing is ridiculous. It's not OK to be a judgmental prick and to act like you're better than everyone else who chooses to live their life differently than yours, but when someone else's behaviours, attitudes or choices impact others around them judge away!

[R3d_Anonymous]

Well-said.

[teawrecks]

Personally, no. It just means they aren't held to a higher respectable standard anymore. Which means I don't value anything they have to offer anymore.

[R3d_Anonymous]

I think you're on to something. We often lose respect of people when we figure out some quality about them that in our opinion is negative.

[R3d_Anonymous]

Thank you.

[Hannah591]

But what if they murdered someone? I'd just feel that it's inhuman of them, not the I'm judging it. They're not the person I thought they were kind of thing, not judging.

[Outofthegrey]

Judging people is good. How else are we supposed to shame them into our way of thinking?

[LittleSally]

Hahaha

[KidanisCortes]

of course its judging