Women can not feel empathy for men (Agree or disagree)?

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"From Empathy: Women cannot bear to see a Man experiencing negative emotions such as extreme anger, rage, fear, despair, despondency or depression for extended periods of time. You say you want to “be there” for your Man; but you cannot do it. If it goes on long enough, it kills the attraction; it sets off your hypergamy alarms; and subconsciously causes you to start hunting for a replacement Man. A woman seeing a Male go through the above will seek to replace that Male immediately. Women cannot listen to Men talking about or working out their dating/mating/relationship issues or problems. Women reflexively view a Man discussing such issues as “whining” or “complaining” or “bitterness” or “sour grapes” or “well, you just chose poorly, so sucks to be you” or “suck it up, no one wants to hear you bitching about it”.

I agree with the very end parts. Literally every female on this site, other sites and in real life normally class men as bitter or whining whenever we males try to express our negative emotions. The insane lack of empathy from women is why I wonder if women are sociopaths by nature. 80% of men could die slow painful deaths today and all women on earth wouldn't care.

Now if you told men that women are being raped and killed by a group of terrorists you'll see the rage in his eyes. Men naturally care for women but women do not care for men as a whole.

Rawrzz · Accepted Answer

Yes. True. Women say they love a "sensitive" man, but that only goes so far. What they really mean by that is sensitivity that benefits them in some way. I don't know about immediately.

She might want to replace the man, but how long until she decides to is dependent upon her beliefs, willpower, how valuable she thinks the male is otherwise. But yes. Life is not a fairy tale. Humans need mutual beneficence.

Ultimately, everything is based on cost and benefit. Why stay with someone who is tremendous upkeep and does nothing but hurts you? Say, a depressed woman who is always crying about how everything is unfair and lashing out at you. Why would you stay with them? The same remains true with friends. Friendship is simply a mutually beneficial temporary arrangement. There are emotions there, you do feel things, but those feelings are simply a means to guide you towards ultimate benefit

Though yes, many women do see a man who brings up any issue as being a bitchy whiner. The idea being that if he is really a man, then he should be able to handle whatever problem comes up. And if he needs help, he's just a bitchy pussy. It is the idea of "be a man," "suck it up," "don't be a bitch"

Though, saying *every* female is going a bit too far. You can't use absolutes like that, because it's so tremendously easy to disprove them. You only need one example. I'm not sure how many, but I'd say at least 20%

But. Here I think you're wrong, as well. Women are simply more valuable to society than men. That is why both men and women will not think much about a man dying. They might go "Oh, that's so sad." But they will get outraged if the same happens to a woman. That's a 20,000 year old instinct, when women were the cornerstone of human population growth. They had to be protected and kept safe, because sperm was cheap, but eggs were expensive, rarer and thus more valuable. That instinct is still reflected in modern society. Women are the more valuable biological entities. This is also why women get pressured to have children much, much more so than men. "That is your biological duty."

You're talking about misandry, but to me, it sounds like you're pretty damn resentful, yourself bro

Science. Previously, scientists had thought all humans were only selfish. Recently, parts of the brain have been discovered dedicated to empathy. That means both men and women can feel empathy for others. Even if it is overshadowed by self-interest, for the most part. For both genders

KDA20 · Accepted Answer

I don't know if men are such heroes I think some men will cut and run if the going gets tough. My point is both genders may often have people who want out, will belittle another person's problems but on the flip side there are members of both genders who are rocks of support to their partners.
I agree there are women who are like how you described but not all but there are male versions as well. I personally try to view people as individuals rather than groups, it makes life less complex and simpler to understand.

eringer11 · Accepted Answer

Disagree. I love sensitive guys, and being able to talk about feelings. But most of the guys that talk about "problems" in here aren't talking about legitimate problems, theyre just complaning about more attractive guys getting more girls. Hate to break it to you guys, but this happens to girls too

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Totally disagree and offended that you think every female is like that. Do you know every single woman in this world personally? I don't think so. I'm not saying that some women aren't like what you describe, but you shouldn't accuse the whole gender as a whole with such brutal accusations.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't feel empathy for anyone unless they're actually having legitimate issues. Rape, death, sickness are all legitimate issues and I will feel empathy for men in those situations.

idkwtftoputhere · Accepted Answer

I don't typically feel empathy for anyone unless it was a huge issue like their loved one dying or some shit. Even to my girl friends, I'll tell them to suck it up and quit bitching

stalwart · Answer

This is absolutely true. They claim they want a nice, sensitive guy, but they find any emotional weakness repugnant. They are in the relationship for a fun ride, and to benefit/profit/control/dump on the guy. A sensitive, sincere guy is about as appealing to them as used toilet paper. No guy is chosen because he's 'good', by the way. What women really want is an asshole who's somewhat out of control -- a demon they can reform. They want to be dominated while being able to complain that they're dominated and that they should have more power, and they never have enough. They want the best of all worlds: being able to play the victim at all times; being able to completely devalue the man's contributions; to think of themselves as the constant moral authority, being able to perceive themselves as superior to their man. They want a bad guy who they can blame. He's their enabler to do what they really want to do. Today women want to nail everything that moves, be sugar babies, have "only fans" sites, and to simultaneously demand that these things come with no consequences, whatsoever, and that they should even be celebrated and can do no wrong. Thus, they're now toxic.

Anonymous · Answer

This is not a gender thing at all. Most people are pretty unempathetic and only care if it happens to someone who's similar to them or a friend/family member. It's obvious when you look at questions revolving around sexism the majority of women who are claiming men are at fault get a load of pink upvotes and a lot of blue downvotes and the guys that are claiming women are the ones at more fault get a lot of blue upvotes and a lot of pink downvotes. People in general just only care about their own.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree with your assessment, well said. It very much feels like that to me too. I'd even go as far as to say some women enjoy upsetting men and if men do get upset, they're just told to stop whining and 'man up'. It does make me feel betrayed because it has happened to me many times and I'm always very protective and empathetic towards women so I don't know where some women get this attitude from.

Anonymous · Answer

Another guy said: "Most people... only care if it happens to someone who's similar to them or a friend/family member"

I agree, but women are disgusting towards the men in their family as well. Most men in marriages and relationships are oppressed slaves. As for "blue upvotes and pink downvotes" being used to prove equality, it doesn't. Men state the facts of life and women OUTRIGHT DENY those facts. Which is why women are like holocaust deniers.

The guy who said he's still looking for a woman who is not like this, he better stop looking for his own sake. That's a feminist dream! and that dream is dead.

Anonymous · Answer

Your absolutely right. Women can't even admit when they're wrong. And scientific studies have PROVEN that all women have narcissism at some degree. And most of them tend to see the most negative in things. They prove this by themselves and THEY KNOW IT. My heart is filled with great passion. The passion of both HATRED and COMPASSION for females. My goal is to fix them and I WILL do it no matter what.

MGTOW !

Homebakedcookies · Answer

Many many many women are sociopaths by nature. It's a terrible fact. I'm still looking for a woman who isn't a sociopath.

StrangerMorrison · Answer

You forgot to go anonymous before you started trolling.

TheOldMan59 · Answer

I agree with the broad statement. The most I've had from women is sympathy. Empathy would require them to understand how you feel.

Lisa_97 · Answer

not all of us, don't generalize

Halfemtee · Answer

That's so not true.

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