and i have seen many women that do
I have seen many women that listen to problems that man have
But some "men" say women dont care about men
After reading this
I now have empathy for your husband
He is great
I feel bad for him because of the idiots that judge him
Awww y'all are so sweet! He said
"don't feel sorry me", He's
"definitely not looking for empathy.. lol"
He is who he is because, (I know) he has a genuinely good heart. He always trys to be the bigger person because that's the way he was raised,
"manors and respect. It's the right thing to do and just because"
he looks like something else, or
"Just because society says so, doesn't make things right."
He's got what some would call "offensive" tattoos, and long hair, long goaty, septum piercing, (ya know.. the bull ring in the nose) about 6" 190lbs looks like a biker asshole, but is totally the opposite. I mean he loves to golf, and kids love him when, (even they), get past his looks. He likes cuddling, bonfires and looking at the stars. But he is the manliest man, that ever maned, manhood!! that's how I like to describe him.💞 He's a no joke hard labor construction lumberjack, guy that loves tools, using his hands to build stuff, shootin guns, and has a sailors mouth, he loves big trucks, and John deere, everything🙄... but will be the 1st one to offer anything he has to help a stranger or
"punch someone in the mouth for doin wrong to someone else in a parking lot. No matter race, personal identity, age, religion or $. For no personal interest man!"
I've seen him turn down $ many times and never regrets it. Even my friends and family were leary about him in the beginning, and asked if he had been in prison lol. But now, people that know us, knows he's a good guy and they love him too 💞
Omg just re-reading that... It's so fuckin sweet, it made me throw up in my mouth a little.. 🤢🥰
He is great? 'He said "what are you stupid? NO." ' Charming, he's not! And he has an ex-wife? Gee, I wonder why?
By no means did I ever say he was charming LMAO 🤭 but he definitely has that rough sexy look but he's a big cuddly bear and as far as the ex goes. He has a piece of paper that states that she is 99.9% a hoe and he's not the daddy so nobody had to say it she did it herself... 👏
@lucky840
"I read this question to my husband and jokingly he said "what are you stupid? NO." And laughed."
Excellent. A married man who still has his testicles. That is rare these days. I raise my glass to you sir in a toast. Well done.
I totally understand you
Most men these days are pathetic
and the rrason
why i asked this quedtion is to see which person on here has a brain
@badboy1232 "Most men these days are pathetic"... this quote from "BadBoy". Fucking idiot cuck.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Of course it does. If men don't show they need empathy, then why would women show it?
Oh OK I reported her too. I specifically reply back to comments like that to make them look bad so they are more nervous to be around. Plus some find it entertaining. :)
@errorgoodnameunfound I don't know why they always seem to jump on my thread or a thread on my posts 🤷🏼♀️
I see them randomly and ofc, they NEVER have replied to me :) So perhaps trolling them works. You see em round, pm me, ill be on it. If they don't get removed, at least we can make them the butt of jokes and make sure nobody falls for it.
Its not like woman gets called police on just because her kid throws tarantum and other people thinks she kidnaping kid. Or gets asked to leave kids playground just because of her being woman and assumed to be pedofile.
Common give me a break, lets not play who has it worst. But if you want shure be my guest lets have some fun.
@__inkRat I haven't given much thought to that. I just don't have empathy for a certain gender. I can relate to a girl who has periods because I know exactly how much that hurts.
And you don't seem that fun
Well thats fair, I can tell you that not having empaty for entire gender is trobling, you probably should seek some help.
Well we all have our altrenate web egos.
Oh yes poor men. They don't bleed out of their dicks and feel bloated up and get abdominal and back pains every month. I should surely start empathising this gender who doesn't have to bleed for half their life as a part of reproduction 😒
That's your reasoning to not have empathy towards men? I'm sure you're explaining goes more in detail in that, right? You would have empathy for men who have been through some really tough things, or had cancer or something like that right?
@Don-_-Don I don't have empathy for male gender as a whole and I don't see why I should. In the beginning, I already did say that I have empathy for PEOPLE who have gone or are going through something. I only show empathy based on a person and not a gender. So for sure I would have empathy for a PERSON who has gone through tough stuff like cancer.
@hangry22 I will apologise to you about giving advice, it seems I have missunderstud you a bit. Im sorry.
@btbc92 You have every advantage over men, on every front, and yet you don't appreciate or recognize any of it. Let's start with that and then talk about female empathy.
Why would I want to take advantage over men? I don't control them. They are not for me to control. I appreciate how God designed them, but many have fallen away and haven't come to the Lord. The same with women. I am not using my flesh to hurt somebody else. The only time men must be able to do something is facing your enemy.
@KrakenAttackin No one dropped me on my head.
I am asking because you really sound hurt. I am sorry that you had to deal with an bitch at some point. But to say that we don't have empathy for men, even our sons, is a streach.
@TallJess It's not a stretch. Look at the horrible abuse sons endure at the hands of single-mothers. Look at every serial killer of women, every single one of them was abused and neglected by a single mother. Women wonder why there are so many male monsters? Women need to look in the mirror because you create monsters.
I also saw a documentary once talking about that. That most serial killers had single mothers.
Still that doesn't mean that most boys raised by single mothers become serial killers.
The same way that most girls in the "entertainment industry" were neglected by their father even with him at home while growing up. Doesn't mean all girls that have their father at home end up in that industry.
@KrakenAttackin
How's it going, bro? You're right. Women's role is to be empathic. If they fail at that they fail at being women. Now before some female gets upset let me ask you this: when was the last time you called a man "a wimp" because he didn't perform to your expectations? When was the last you called him "a pussy" over bullshit? If you are going to make demands of me I'm going to make demands of you. That is a non-negotiable ultimatum.
@KrakenAttackin
I hold both men and women accountable. Real men do that. It is only virtue signalling soyboys that give women a pass.
I believe I speak for most girls when I say that we want to be held accountable for what we do. Of good and bad.
@TallJess "WHo HUrt YOuu?" Classic example of lacking empathy with a concern troll stock question
@DonCachondo Women have no incentive to be kind of empathetic. Women get what they want by driving men as hard as they possibly can regardless of the emotional, physical, or psychological toll on men. When I say men I include a woman's father, husband, brothers, and son. There isn't a man a woman won't destroy when she wants something.
@TallJess It's not a stretch. Everywhere I look I see women sucking the life out of men, including their own sons. The amount of entitlement in modern women is unbelievable. The crazy thing is that women don't even realize how much they are destroying men... and don't care.
Look at the huge male suicide rate. Do women care? Nope.
Women are a larger percentage of the population and outlive men significantly, but still 3x as much spending is done on women's health issues as compared to men's. Do women care? Nope.
Men make up 96% of workplace fatalities, do women care? Nope.
The overwhelming amount of homeless are men. Do women care? Nope.
I can go on and on, but would women care? Nope.
Don't tell me about female empathy.
@KrakenAttackin you really have a bad impression of women. That is why I asked who hurt you. Whoever she was or what she did, she does not represents most women.
@KrakenAttackin Do men care?
I am not saying that no one should care. Society should care for all of those issues, but it doesn't. Both men and women don't care about men's problems. That is sad and should be changed. Why don't men speak up? Why don't you do something?
Women should do something, but men have even big reason to act. So they don't?
Most of you don't even feel empathy for your own.
@TallJess It's obvo such a canned response. And it's so fkin cliche!!! Seriously, what were you going to do with an answer if he gave you one, go find the woman and bully her? LOL.
The phrase "Who hurt you?" is not a sincere question but rather a ridiculously enduring, and hence common, gaslighting technique designed to cast doubt on the validity of one's stated grievances through the implication that they could ONLY be valid from the perspective of a traumatized—i. e. broken—mind.
@DonCachondo No, I would simply say that not all women are the same. We don't all treat men like crap.
I think we can all agree that some men also treat women like crap. Both genders do bad thing to the other, and both have good people. No need to generalise.
@KrakenAttackin it was not my intention to riddicule you in any way. I was really asking because you do sound hurt.
@KrakenAttackin and I would understand better where you are coming from.
By the way I am curious to hear your response to my question. Why don't more men care about mens problems?
@TallJess Nobody is saying all women are the same... we all speak in generalizations all the time, it's part of basic communication, lol don't go throwing all of inductive reasoning out the window just because you find a certain generalization inconvenient haha
@TallJess Men do care about their own, but women are so busy sucking up resources from society there isn't much left for men. Men are constantly told we have to do more for women on every front. I see it almost every day. When a women comes in with a problem, men stop what they are doing to immediately address what problem she has. You women are so used to men doing everything for you that you don't even realize it. And men are so used to doing things for women that they just go into autopilot and handle the issue.
Men are hardwired to protect and support women, it's in our DNA. The problem is that women don't give a fuck. You are more than happy to suck up the work and sacrifice men make, while absolutely not appreciating it, AND still bitching about "equality". In reality, the VERY LAST thing women want is "equality", which would mean you would have to handle your own shit.
@KrakenAttackin They do? You guys are the first ones to tell eachotehr to man up and that men can't be raped. If you really wanted to support each other you would do more than, well nothing. What have you guys done to try to help each other? To reduce the suicide rate? To reduce court bias? You haven't done a thing.
As a women that works in a make dominated industry I can tell you that men are not that eager to help us. Or better said, they try to help until I refuse their advances. After they know I am not interested they stop trying to help.
You talk like women don't work. Sure the mail operating drill are doing a hard work, but nurses keeping people alive for over 24h shifts in pandemic days are not exactly doing anything. We are not in the stone age anymore. We work for what we have. If you men chose to not study and end up on the drill that's on you.
Also yes we do care! It's our brothers, sons, father and partners. I don't have a son, but I have the others and I love them.
@TallJess Way to slam blue collar as "men who chose not to study". Also totally incorrect. There is plenty of study in many blue collar fields (like being a Weld Engineer). So stop your mysandrous BS.
You say you care about men? Why have women so horribly slanted the laws against men? Look at #MeToo and what that has done to regular good men. What if your son is someday falsely accused by a woman where he works of inappropriate conduct? He will be fired and labeled with no recourse. What if he has consensual sex with a woman who the next morning decided it was a mistake and files a rape complaint against him? He will be destroyed and ruined as a person.
You women have made interaction with you a very dangerous endeavour. What have you done about this to help your Son? Answer... nothing... because you don't think any of the above are real problems. Your answer will be "I will teach my son to respect women", which is only lying to him. So I reassert, you do not have empathy for men even though you think you do.
Let's not play dumb. You know very well that most men that have those dangerous jobs didn't finished their education. Garbage men, construction workers, window cleaners, etc.
I know that some men were falsely accused and no one heard them. But those are isolated cases. It's still more likely that a woman will go to HR complain about a real sexual harassment case and instead of listening to her they brush it off as "just joking". Then she gets ostracized by her peers for speaking the truth.
So I don't need to be afraid for my son.
I haven't done anything because I don't need to. False accusations happen, but they are rare.
Of course I have empathy for men when it happens! But that doesn't mean it's a generalized problem.
@TallJess I don't believe that when it comes to porn women will pose in the nude. Fatherless or not. Genie Bus, co-owner of the Los Angeles Lakers, posed in Playboy. She was not fatherless nor was she in a desperate financial situation. The same with Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian.
@joeblow123 I never said that ALL girls who do it don't have a father. I said that father issues makes many girls desperate for men's aproval and so they fall into that industry.
Besides you can have a father at home and still have father issues with the lack of attention he gives you.
@TallJess You completely glossed over my rebuttal so I can tell you are not serious about this discussion.
@KrakenAttackin What? No I answered you. Here I will post it again:
Let's not play dumb. You know very well that most men that have those dangerous jobs didn't finished their education. Garbage men, construction workers, window cleaners, etc.
I know that some men were falsely accused and no one heard them. But those are isolated cases. It's still more likely that a woman will go to HR complain about a real sexual harassment case and instead of listening to her they brush it off as "just joking". Then she gets ostracized by her peers for speaking the truth.
So I don't need to be afraid for my son.
I haven't done anything because I don't need to. False accusations happen, but they are rare.
Of course I have empathy for men when it happens! But that doesn't mean it's a generalized problem.
@TallJess You don't have empathy for men who work essential and dangerous jobs because they did not go to college? Way to be egalitarian!!! In your mind their lives are worth less which you made brutally apparent. Think about your privilege Jess.
@KrakenAttackin I would say the same thing for a women working those same jobs! If you ask me if they should have better work conditions to make it safer, absolutely!
But my point is that no one forced them to be there. That's the result of their life choices. What the hell am I supposed to do?
If I feel for them if they die or get injured? Yes! But just like when a police or a fireman die on the job, they put themselves there. What can I do?
@TallJess
"Construction workers" also includes electricians who went to school to learn how to do electrical work without causing a short circuit and posssible fire.
"I know that some men were falsely accused and no one heard them. But those are isolated cases."
"False accusations happen, but they are rare."
The false accusation rate for rape is 60%. The reasons given for this false accusation rate: spite, revenge, even boredom. These are the cases where the accuser deliberately lied. This is from a U. S. Air Force study by Dr. Charles McDowwell. From the book The Myth Of Male Power by Warren Farrell.
@TallJess
"Why don't more men care about mens problems?"
I've asked the same question.
@talljess
These statistics I provided apply only to the United States. There are cultural differences between the United States and Portugal. The issues we discuss here pertain to the English speaking world.
@joeblow123 Electricians don't make that little and have a far less dangerous job than what people think.
I don't know that author. But there are books out there with a lot of bs. Including feminists books. Writting abook do not make you right in everything you say. Actually according to the FBI false accusations make only 8% of all accusations.
And if you think for tow seconds you will realise that 60% is way to big to be truth.
Note that I never said that it never happens or that I don't feel for men falsely accused.
@joeblow123 Men should care more. Everyone should care more about men. You guys are amazing!
@joeblow123 I put Portugal in my profile, but I am actually from Brasil.
And yes, I agree that there are way more issues in the English speaking world.
@TallJess
"Actually according to the FBI false accusations make only 8% of all accusations."
Can you post a link to back your claim?
@joeblow123 I tried to find it, but I am not finding the FBI data. Still I have found this www. open. ac. u k/ research/n ews/ false- accusations- sexual- violence (I have to post it like this. I can't post links yet due to my level.)
Calls on even lower percentages.
@TallJess
"there are books out there with a lot of bs. Including feminists books."
The same goes for rape statistics. True and false.
@joeblow123 I agree. That stat that that says most girls will experience some form of sexually violence during college is pure bs. I don't remember what number the percentage was, but it was super high. No way it's that much or no girl would ever go to college!
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